Hello everyone. 👋

On the surface, I'm your typical millennial. I listen to the same 12 bands I did in high school, still wear classic vans, and prefer flannels, sweaters, and all things black/dark (basically our textbook elder emo), I have a nerd-sided tattoo sleeve, a full beard, glasses, and a dad-bod that I work on, daily, trying to improve.

I have quite a few interests, and am a big ADHD so I tend to hyperfixate on something, throw myself into it, then move onto something else, but the things that have stuck over the years are reading (sci-fi, suspense/mystery, horror/thriller, classics), video games (PS5 and PC), movies and TV shows (the list is too long but we can talk about them if you'd like), being outdoors/hiking/exploring new places, building/woodwork, and cooking.

Under the surface, I crave a deeper connection. I don't want someone to come into my messages with "Be my Daddy" or "Tell me what to do," that doesn't work for me and honestly shouldn't work for you. D/s, and BDSM in general, requires a deeper connection, built on trust and understanding, honesty, and share interests (both kink and non). So, I'm looking for that connection, I'm looking to get to know someone, test compatibility across different areas, ensure we can be friends outside of kink, and build something real, something deep, where we can feel free to be ourselves, without fear of judgement.

Kink wise, I'm a Dom and a sadist, but also a caregiver at heart. My kinks include, but aren't limited to:

CNC

Free-use/TPE

Knife/Weapon/Fear Play

Humiliation/Degradation

Face Fucking

Slapping/Choking/General Abuse/Impact Play

Anal/Ass Play

Conditioning

Rules and Reward/Punishment

Scent Play

Body Worship

Forced Servitude / Slave Play

DD/lg / Age Play

Watersports

AFTERCARE

Much more. I'm into more than I'm not, and am open to most kinks. My only HARD limits are children/animals, and anything non-consensual.

If you read something you like, please don't hesitate to reach out. (: If you do, include a little bit about yourself, your interests, and tell me your favorite food, please. (: I look forward to hearing from you.