Affectionate domination is not as foreign a concept as it might seem. The idea that I want to enjoy, demand, direct, dictate, or guide you does not mean that I don't want to reassure, comfort, console, encourage, or support you. For many submissives I've found that they didn't know they could have both sides in a power exchange: I can assure you it is rewarding for both dom and sub.
I'm looking for a submissive who craves this kind of dynamic. Experience helps but isn't necessary, but being able to talk about your wants and needs openly and honestly is a big bonus. I gravitate towards open-minded kinksters who you'd never suspect had such deviant desires and to those who want a patient dominant to help them explore their fantasies in a safe, consensual way. Make no mistake: I want to make you feel f'n good and you pleasing me is just one way to do that.
Tall, well-read, decent shape, active, and a good communicator. My kinks are wide but I especially enjoy pleasure control, discipline, voice play, and anything sensual and seductive. I'll be avoiding blood, scat, anything illegal or damaging. Common-sense should rule the day. Consent is paramount.
Happy to answer questions if you message. I'm in North America.
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