Hi Thank you for stopping by. Been a lurker for awhile and figured I'd throw this out there and see what happens. I'm looking for a monogamous relationship with someone to live through the ups and downs of life with, a best friend to sit up and have deep conversations under the starts with, someone to talk about the good days and the bad days all wrapped up in a kinky bow or rope your choice.

I am a newbie when it comes to bdsm, I have not done anything with another person as all my previous relationships have been vanilla. I am not doing this to test it out though this is something I have wanted since I first started discovering it when I was 14. I don't have an issue sharing pics or videos but only once there is some trust.

Me Im a 27M nerdy programmer, caucasian, short brown hair, brown eyeys, 6'3, GMT 2, 101kg on the chubbier side but that's a work in progress, spending a lot more time getting outside rather than being at my desk although I am still fit and healthy. Big gamer when I have the time also total weeb for anime and manga. Metalhead with mix of other odd genres. Pretty good with my hands, I built an outdoor shower and am generally the one family call to fix something (what did you think I meant by good with my hands).

https://imgur.com/a/6jcLoek

Definitely an introvert and an overthinker. I tend to keep to myself and avoid crowded areas although I enjoy a stimulating conversation. Almost any topic just depends how much I know about it to have decent input but happy to learn something new, I'm a sponge for information. F1 fanatic always wanted to be a race car driver. I love figuring out how something works, so I can understand it better.

I vape, smoke weed and drink just in case that is a deal breaker.

Kinky me Switch falling over sub As I said I'm a newbie but I have been very interested in d/s dynamic since I was 14. I had started out feeling like I was dominate at first but soon realized that was a small part. There is something about giving up control to someone you trust and just being left in their hands that I find quite alluring. My sub side enjoys being at the beck and call of someone to make their life easier and more pleasurable be that doing all the chores, giving massages preparing dinner or just using my face as a throne. My dominant side likes having the control and being the center of attention but that can quickly fall apart as I start to feel anxious and doubt what I am doing or if I am doing it right. Mainly I want to be able to explore with someone to learn and figure out together what fits right for us.

Dos This is more of a list of things I definitely know I am into as I either enjoy doing them by myself or have had a long running interest.

Bondage Anal play/pegging Pet play Free use Spanking Crossdressing although this might just be a women's clothing fetish not sure yet

Don'ts Serious or permant harm Scat Blood Sph Cuckolding Public play Findom Forced bi

Other than that I am curious to try anything once just ask.

I don't have any preferences about body type just that you are healthy, it is no fun of you get out of breath after a few minutes. Other than that I am more focused on an emotional connection.

So that's basically it, if you think we would be a good fit then send me a message, please give some info about yourself and what you want out of this also include the word teacup in the beginning of your message so I know you made it here(I'll let you guess what that word is for)

Thanks for taking the time to read this, I appreciate it.