Hi.

I think, really, what I'm looking for is mainly vanilla—walking hand in hand (maybe glove-in-glove now?), talking about our days, cuddling up while watching something (and discussing plot holes/things that make no sense), cooking/baking together, me just being me and you telling me I'm adorable. Companionship, you know? Softness, ease, belonging, safety. I want to feel understood at my core by a partner.

From a kink perspective, I think what comes the closest to describing what I'm looking for is a mommy domme, but that doesn't exactly fit. I'm not interested in ageplay; I just want a safe space for me to be silly and look at the world with a sense of wonder.

I want to be taught and led and guided and affirmed, coupled with gentle touches...like maybe you'd run your hand along my long black hair or hold me close while telling me I'm a good girl. I think pet play is interesting, too, as a way of letting go and being in the present moment.

I've fantasized about some rough degrading things, but I've realized that, ultimately, that's not really satisfying. There's a hollowness to it, especially when a deep trust isn't established. Maybe that's something we could explore down the road with a deep connection. Or maybe you could help me understand my impulses/desires?

I'm open to location, though I very much want an in person relationship and would want to close the gap relatively quickly if everything felt right. In the meantime, I'd love regular audio/video calls (and I find an audio call is the easiest way to gauge initial compatibility.)

A little about me:

• I like long walks, yoga, and making funny faces.
• Recently, I've started baking sourdough!
• Self-reiki has felt very healing for me lately.
• I have a huge sweet tooth (I love tiramisu, even though I hate coffee.)
• I've grown a lot in the last few years (ask me about it!)

About you:

• You're kind and love giving genuine compliments.
• You understand that growth is rarely linear—often it's 1 step forward, 3 steps back, 2 steps forward, 4 steps back, ad infinitum.
• Maybe you're an artist or creative in another way.

If this ad calls to you, send me a thoughtful note! Looking forward to connecting 💜

p.s. Here's a little voice note I just recorded.