You want an older man to make you feel safe, serve as a mentor, and please as his personal toy - there is no shame in this. I say taboo because there are few darker scenes that we will explore. I prefer a psychologically driven dynamic, exploring the hidden recesses of your mind without judgment. My ability to connect and build deep intimacy is crucial to the experience. I embrace the rules based structure and discipline of BDSM and expect the same in you. The lifestyle has allowed me to become the best version of myself - assertive, confident, driven, successful, but also nurturing when needed. I will invest my time, energy, and resources in you - my reward is your submission, loyalty, and the satisfaction of seeing you become more than you currently are.

Me: I am physically attractive, patient yet firm. Professionally, I am PhD educated, a serial entrepreneur with flexibility in travel and schedule. My personal interests include backcountry hiking, poker, and all things history/travel/culture and writing. Kink wise, I enjoy roleplay, power dynamics, DDlg (without extreme age-play), rule based dynamics, restraints/bondage, CNC, and much more. I am rarely interested in a single encounter - most of my past subs have been in training for several months, in some instances years.

You: See BDSM as more than a kink, are loyal, playful, and adventurous. I demand serious intent, of course we are going to have mind blowing scenes, but I require more than that. Be prepared to submit to my ground rules of absolute honesty, communication, and mutual respect. Be willing to meet after trust and rapport is established typically a few weeks. Travel is a non issue to me as I am a digital nomad. I prefer you to be located in the SouthEast US, for the right connection willing to travel especially to places that interest me. I have a vetting process to ensure compatibility, the first step is you DMing me your interest in my approach