Anyways, this is kinda long, but it's worth it to find a great dynamic.

About Me (What you're getting yourself into): The Basics: I'm 32 years old, I currently live in Oregon and work from home. I have lived on 5 countries before moving to US. I'm half Italian and half Arab. I'm 6'2'', 155 lbs, vaccinated, nicotine-free, and STI free. I drink socially and I'm 420-friendly (though I'm slowing down recently). My mother used to tell me I was "quite the handsome man" but you be the judge. Here are a couple of pics of me.

Who am I?: I'll avoid the existential dread that comes with asking this question and just focus on my personality...for now. I'm somewhere in the middle of the introvert/extrovert spectrum. Critics describe me as "playful", "clever", "curious", "easy to talk to", "open-minded", and "why the hell did you text me asking for a one word review of your personality when we haven't talked since high school?". I know when to have fun, but also when to take things seriously.

What is life? (aka what do I do for fun): I'm mostly adventurous, I do also love to go out and have fun. I enjoy being out in nature, hiking, camping and backpacking, and gardening. I love trying new things, so I'm always changing around my hobbies, but my constant interests include logic puzzles (shout-out to Sudoku), cooking/baking, and podcasts. A couple of recent things I've been exploring are Fermenting/ Brewing and leathering. When I'm out, I like to go to live music shows, stand-up comedy, museums, art exhibitions, grab food at a nice place, and try random things. I also have a decent space of land where I am trying to create a farmstead/homestead (Multi-year project)

What I value: I'm a motivated and driven person. I have a great career that I value, and I'm passionate about my work. I'm educated and have two post-grad degrees, mostly just to keep stacking those letters after my name on my LinkedIn profile, but I also love to learn. I also value spending quality time with friends and family.

What I Value in a Partner What I'm looking for is ideally a long-term partner that has some shared interests and values. I'm open to a more casual dynamic, but either way I am looking for a continuous dynamic and not just short term pick up play. As you'd probably imagine, I've always been attracted to strong women so I love assertive (but respectful) personalities. I also love the contrast of someone who is a little more introverted in daily life, but likes to be assertive in other parts of their life. I'm looking for someone who is also passionate, motivated, and driven (which comes in many forms). I'm not looking for someone to micromanage my daily life or to completely lead a relationship, but I do also enjoy when some aspects of kink bleed outside the bedroom, which I'll get into. I want to challenge and motivate you to succeed in your life goals, and I want someone who provides the same type of support and energy. My ideal partner is also open-minded, curious, intelligent, respectful, and knows how to have fun. She takes care of her mental and physical health, communicates well, is honest, and is kinky. To be clear, I am not looking for any sort of findom or pay to play situation. I am looking for a geniune connection with someone that is focused on enjoying each other's personalities and fun times together rather than financial or other motivations.

I'm not super strict on an age range, but I'm looking for someone in their mid 20s through early/mid 40s.

I'm open to a range of Domme personality types, including more nurturing, gentle to strict women, those who like to have a caregiver role, rough or aggressive women, sadists, disciplinarians, pet owners, and others. I tend to like things from each style, so my submission is adaptable to many Domme styles and we can talk through what would work for us both.

My deal breakers are: daily cigarette/tobacco smokers (I have mild asthma and this is a trigger for me), not vaccinated, not pro-choice or LGBT ally (I want a partner that is generally left-leaning), and any chronic STDs/STIs.

Kink Previous experience: I'm pretty experienced, with roughly 10 years of play under my belt. I've been in FLRs, dynamics, training stuff with Dommes, and a handful of other casual ones. I've explored a lot of my kinks so I already know most of what I like and don't like. I have realistic expectations of a D/s dynamic and want anything to be mutually fun and beneficial. I don't expect or want someone to be a kink dispenser to me, I reciprocate exploration and I'm happy to do kinks or other things that I'm not particularly into within my limits because I just enjoy pleasing you. I'm open to a range of experience for you, please don't let my experience intimidate you if you're new. I'm happy to go as slow as you need to feel comfortable and find your voice. If you already have experience, then we can discuss more details together while we negotiate.

Kinks and the Dynamic: Some of my main kinks include orgasm control, edging, foot/body worship, doing tasks and services (like massages, Cooking or making your morning coffee), rough play, pegging, facesitting, bondage, Chastity and pain of all sorts. Also cuckolding and a combination of bi-encouragement. My hard limits are forced bi, scat, blood, anything permanent, and things that are generally considered more extreme.

I'm adaptable to different Domme styles, but I do like to be praised when I do a good job, so I need that element somewhere in the dynamic. Whichever style you have, we'll talk through and negotiate something that works for us both that we can both feel fulfilled and have fun in. If you still need to figure out what your style is, we can explore what you'd like together and see what resonates well for you. I want our dynamic to be exciting, fun, and tailored to focusing on your pleasure, giving you exactly what you need to your heart's content, and being rewarded for making you happy. I like when parts of a dynamic bleed outside the bedroom. By that I mean I enjoy giving control of my own pleasure to you,for example to decide when I'm allowed to orgasm, or to be told I need to wear a plug for the day, or other things like that.

So that was an absolute mouthful. If my Ph.D. thesis here gets you excited, then message me a little about yourself, anything that stood out to you in my post, your vanilla interests, some of your kinks/limits, and we can get to chatting and see what sort of compatibility we have!