Looking again for the first time in a while. I am willing to discuss everything at length though these are what I’m looking for, what I can offer, what I’m not looking for, etc.

First, getting what I’m not looking for out of the way:

I am not looking for straight men or people who are not interested in men. I am a man. I have been on testosterone for several years and gotten top surgery, I can guarantee I am not what you are looking for either.

Similarly people who call me by feminine honourifics or honourifics right away without asking first. I would like to get to know you first but if you absolutely have to use an honourific with me then Mr is fine. Nothing other than that will be tolerated at all until a dynamic and mutual interest has been established.

Please do not send me NSFW pictures right away. Or try to engage in play right away. I am not interested in playing or NSFW pictures right away. SFW is fine! But if it toes the line please ask.

As for what I’m looking for:

I’m looking for a communicative sub who shares some of my interests and values and who I can get along with outside of kink. Someone who values growth and learning. I’m looking for a long term dynamic with rules, rituals, punishments and rewards. Preferably someone 20 years in age as I’m looking for someone somewhat close to my age if younger. Older age doesn’t matter as much.

I am specifically looking for someone who matches some of my kink roles as well and is looking specifically for what I can and will offer.

About me and what I can and will offer:

I am a rather versatile dom in terms of roles. Some of my main roles are CG/daddy dom, Master, sadist, rigger, primal dom, owner/pet handler, and all around experimentalist. I am also a brat tamer and tend to find myself attracted to brats as well. I have many different kinks, those of which I want to discuss further in DMs during the vetting process. I prefer my vetting process to be long and thorough. I love offering structure with rules and rituals that will be enforced with a firm hand. I like incorporating reward systems into the mix as well as punishments. I am well versed in figuring out individual needs and what makes people tick. I love providing aftercare and feel it is the most important aspect. I enjoy all aspects of BDSM and am happy to educate and talk things if need be. I take on a guiding approach and am typically a soft dom though can be hard and ruthless if need be. It depends on the submissive.

In vanilla life I have a variety of hobbies and interests, mostly artsy or nerdy. These include video games (including retro), tabletops, coding, 3D modelling, reading, writing, acting, singing, hiking or going on walks, Sci fi, horror or fantasy media, witchy stuff like tarot reading, drawing, painting (especially miniatures), cooking, baking, finally I also really like card and board games but also model building. I’m a fairly goofy silly man outside of kink and love to joke around and have a good chat. Feel free to get to know me more!

If interested please send me a message request with an introduction to you as a sub and what you’re looking for. I’d like to discuss everything else through PM or DM.