The girl im looking for has a very curious mind. She's eager. Sweet. Maybe she's a little shy in her day to day life. BDSM seems so exciting to her but it can be a little scary at times. Maybe she struggles with making decisions for herself, ends up overthinking. I'm looking for a girl who finds the thought of losing control oddly liberating, exciting, comforting even. She's longing to be taken care of, to be cherished, to give her whole self into the hands of someone else. Does that girl sound like you? Read on.

I believe a bdsm relationship is one of the most intense, deepest and exciting bonds out there and i'm hoping to find that intimate bond with you. Your amount of experience does not matter to me. I'm more than happy to teach you everything you'll need. I would like you to be younger than me (but, of course, over 18. Not today, Chris Hansen) though i'm fine with anyone under 30. Ideally you're human aswell but if you're a really charming cyborg, i might consider you aswell! Above all it is very important to me that we vibe and get along well outside of the bedroom too because otherwise this doesn't work for me. As much as i want to own you and make you do shameful things i also want to share laughs with you and have thoughtful conversations about whatever we'll come up with. I don't care very much about your appearance as long as you are relatively in shape and take care of yourself. If you are the one i'm looking for, you'll be the prettiest girl for me. Preferably you live in Europe or North America but i believe i can make any timezone work for the right person so if this post speaks to you, your location won't be a big problem, no matter where you are! While we're here let me sneakily include that i want you to tell me your favourite animal in your message so that i know you paid attention.

Now i spent alot of time talking about what i want so here's what you'll be getting in return. I've been collecting experience ever since i turned 18. I know what i'm doing but i'm certainly not perfect and can always learn more. I'm mature, intelligent, I can hold a conversation and i have a quite dark, and, at times cynical humor. I'm a patient person. I spend alot of time with my lovely dog who already covers the good boy part in my life. Some of my interests include history, gaming, drawing and once in a while i develop a short term obsession with true crime! I have a flexible schedule that allows me to give my sub lots of attention. As for dom me, I'm above all a caring person. Your safety is always going to be priority number one for me as i value that very much. As much as i plan to use and take over your life i also want to be there for you, be the one you can vent to and make you feel heard. I can have a quite mean sexual streak and i'm able to be strict and rough when i think it's necessary.

As for the kinky shit i know you were waiting for, I like alot of things. I've done alot of things and i'm willing to give most of them a try.. But to paint you a clearer picture, here's a few things i enjoy that were part of most of my dynamics(but aren't necessarily requirements). Orgasm control and denial. TPE. Edging. Anal. Impact play. Degradation. Humiliation. Bodywriting. And many more. As for limits, theyre sparse but do exist: I will never do anything involving scat, animals and underage participants aswell as anything that would get either of us in legal trouble.

I intend to keep this online for now though of course if we truly click i would like to move to in person one day in the future!

If you think you might be the one i'm looking for, i hope you'll reach out. Please tell me a little about yourself in your message, like your age, location, what about this post spoke to you, whatever else you may want to add. If you just have a question or want something else, that's fine too. This ended up being a bit long but we made it to the end! Treat yourself to a cookie and have a nice day!