I'm a kink explorer who loves a whole wealth of thrills and is looking for new encounters and experiences. I'm 48 and look younger, 5'9", white European, fit, educated, well-read and well-travelled, only play safe and get tested regularly.

I don't define myself by having a specific kink, there's just too much out there to explore! In my ideal play situation, the fun stuff emerges from the encounter between two or more people, discovering how to take each other to ever-new heights of ecstasy and depths of depravity. Consent, communication, respect, trust and aftercare are the essential ingredients for getting there. As well as playfulness, tactility, fun and the sweet joys of transgressing norms and conventions.

That said, I’m definitely more on the Dom side, although I can also switch in the right kind of company. Play that I LOVE and feel pretty natural with include:

• slut training and introducing newcomers to play in ways that they feel safe and cared for
• ropes, spreader bars and other kinds of restraints
• impact play, spanking, slapping and choking
• gangbangs, sex parties and bukkake (both participating and organising)
• playing with couples
• risky play in public places
• humiliation and servitude (giving)
• rough sex and CNC
• pleasure Domming and pussy worship
• role play
• DP

I'm up for a non-committal meeting to test the waters and for developing a more regular thing if we click. I'm taking the friends part in 'friends with benefits' seriously. I really like connecting with those whom I play with on all sorts of levels beyond the carnal.

I enjoy the company of people who are thoughtful, caring and kind in the way they deal with others, something that I also strive to be as well. At the same time, a bit of irreverence, quirkiness and that delicious sparkle in the eyes trigger my erogenous zones. 🥰 Sounds like your kind of thing? Drop me a line and let's make some magic moments happen!

I'm only looking for IRL meets, not for penpals.