Hi! I’m a 23-year-old college student. Physically: I’m 5’11, 135 lbs, white, short/medium-length brown hair. I’m straight and am in an ENM relationship with a wonderful partner. My dream reality would be living on a cottage farm with 3 horses and an attached art studio. In my current reality, I have a year left of college before I graduate with a degree in Communication Design and kickstart my career.

I’m hoping that from this post maybe I’ll get to talk to an older dominant guy with similar kinks. I’m craving fun flirty conversations with someone who has a smart brain. Currently, I’m thinking this would be more of an online thing, but if you’re in central Texas and we have great chemistry maybe we could meet eventually : )

Some background info - 2 years ago I posted an ad here. It was my first introduction to the kink world and it was a great experience. I got to explore the local scene and what it had to offer. I also learned about general guidelines for safety, negotiations, and communication. I feel relatively experienced in that way and I’d like the people I talk with to be on a similar level of experience, if not more. 

Anyways, let’s talk about the fun stuff! I’ve always had an interest in kink and BDSM. I used to be obsessed with stories of damsels in distress, sexy capture scenes, and evil villains who torture pretty girls. I still enjoy those things but now I have a deeper and more sensitive understanding of what makes my brain tick. Like how exciting it is to feel small and at someone else's whim. Not having a say in what happens to you (or doesn’t happen). Feelings of vulnerability and so on.

My kink shortlist would be something along the lines of humiliation, degradation, masochism, bondage, power exchange, misogyny, and fear. I won't list everything, I think it’s kinda fun for things to naturally unfold through getting to know each other more. 

I will say that even with my experience there are still some kinks on my bucket list that I haven’t gotten to explore. In particular: exploring the power differentials that are inherent in relationships. Think like a boss and employee, professor and student, and so on. At the core of my kink identity is the desire to feel secondary to a dominant authority figure. So that’s where you come into the picture. If you feel you inhabit this dominant authority figure position in some regard, I’d love to hear from you! 

I’m imagining that your kink keywords would be something along the lines of dom, daddy dom, sadist, and/or disciplinarian? Something like that. Additionally, I’d prefer to talk to someone older than me. It’s easier to lean into the dominant authority figure that way. 

I know this was long and rambling. I was figuring it out as I went but I hope I got the idea across : ) I’ll put a recap here too:

Submissive artsy college girl looking for an older dominant man who has previous experience in the scene and has overlapping kink interests. Additionally, because I’m EMN it’d be a bonus if you were too. I see this as involving some fun chatting online but if you live nearby or visit central Texas and we get along things could progress to in person. I’m open to verifying once we’ve talked for a bit. If you have fet we could also exchange account info!

If you’re still interested after reading this, please reach out! Tell me about yourself or what about this post resonated with you or caught your eye. I put in time writing this all out, I’d appreciate it if you did the same in your message. Looking forward to hearing from you : )