I have a post, pinned to my profile, that goes into more detail. Please watch that video before DMing me.

ABOUT ME

I'm a 35-year-old man, and a sadist, looking for a masochist who I can own. I'm straight, but I also like trans women - even trans women who haven't had bottom surgery - as long as you're 100% passable except for your bottom surgery.

Subreddits that show my kinks are, in no particular order, r/punchingporn, r/I_Want_to_Be_her, r/ExtremeBDSM_PainKinks, r/DegradeThisPig, r/traumatizedsluts2, r/traps, r/MysogynyFarm, r/betawomen, and r/womenarethings.

I'm ideally looking for a 24/7 TPE dynamic, with constant free use and daily beatings. And yes, I said "beatings," as in ... with fists! All over your body! And especially your belly! Of course, I always respect the safe word (my favorite safe words to use are red/yellow/green, but we can do other safe words if you prefer).

Of course, if you're not a masochist, I can still love you as long as you're willing to do a polyamorous relationship. That way, I can still find another masochist complete that side of me. I've never hit a non-masochistic woman, ever, and I've never hit any of my girlfriends in anger.

Both during aftercare and also outside the bedroom, I will be a romantic, cuddle bug of a hubby for you. If you become mine, then we're talking hours-long naked cuddles where I completely smother you with kisses and tell you that you complete me over and over again. Movies, video games, and romantic kisses under the mistletoe!

And if I we have to be apart for even a little bit, when we do reunite, I'll tell you how bummed I was that you weren't with me.

But I expect that same energy from you. If we fall in love, I will give you my everything. You will become my world. You will become my UNIVERSE! But I also expect you to make me your universe, as well! I want us both to be completely obsessed with each other! I can understand if you're at work or asleep, but I want us to be texting each other 24/7, hundreds of times a day, every single day, CONSTANTLY, except those two times!

I'M SERIOUS!!! I've alienated more girlfriends because I was too obsessively clingy with them, than I have because of the impact/pain play! Please make sure you can handle my clinginess before you DM me!

ABOUT YOU

I want you to be cravenly submissive, cravenly masochistic, and head over heels in love with me. Whether we're having a scene or we're just girlfriend and boyfriend, I want you to be absolutely obsessed with me, texting me non-stop when we're apart, always at my beck and call when we're together, and always thinking of me, every single second of every single day (as I will be for you). If I take longer than a minute to reply to your text, I want you to cry and start texting me like mad, because you think I've abandoned you! That's what I'll do if you don't reply immediately, and I want a woman who is just as clingy as me.

I want my gf to actively compete with me to see who can be clingier.

Then, ask me for a beating, in your most craven, puppy dog eyes possible. Because you're a masochist and your love language is pain! You can orgasm from a dick in your vag and a fist in your belly, all the same!

She should have an ultra high libido, initiating sex herself, multiple times a day, and always looking to brighten my day with her loving, supportive presence. Whenever I'm blue, she should always be eager to cheer me up with kinky play (both on the xbox and in the bedroom). When I have no self esteem and feel worthless (spoilers: that will happen a lot), she should want to do everything in her power to be my rock and build me up, with words of encouragement, words of affirmation, cuddles, kisses, blowjobs, affection, soft words, and everything else.

EVERY... SINGLE... GOD... DAMN... DAY!!

If you can't be as much of a masochist as I need, and/or you can't give me the around-the-clock attention I need, then I need you to at least be willing to let me have other girlfriends besides you, so I can get my sadism and/or constant around the clock attention split between you.

ABOUT US

When we're together, we should never fight. Ever. Any disagreement, it's us versus the problem, not me versus you.

To say I believe in going 50/50 would be an understatement. I believe in 100/100, and if you're not on board with that, we're not compatible. At the very least, you should be the kind of woman who believes in 60/40 with both partners trying to be the 60.

We must ALWASY keep each other abreast of where the other is. We must tell each other in advance when we're going to be preoccupied and can't reply, and when we'll be available to reply again.

Good morning texts the MINUTE we wake up! We're still lying in bed, and the FIRST thing we do is reach for our phones and text good morning to each other!

Constant, around-the-clock texts and calls every other waking moment of the day. Even if we don't have anything to say, just say "thinking of you my love" or "wish I was there sitting in your lap," or something like that. Obviously, when we're at work, that's not going to be an option, but like I said above, whenever we can, we must.

It should be a constant, life-long competition to see who can be clingier and more affectionate towards the other. Never a winner, only a constant push to be even clingier and even more affectionate.

If we ever add another to the group and make it poly, we must BOTH approve her! If we want another girl and make it a four-way, all three of us must unanimously approve her. So on and so forth.

CONCLUSION

If you think you can handle me (and I'm a LOT to handle), then please check out my pinned post, and when you DM me, answer all the questions I ask in that post. Thank you.