This is going to be a long one, grab a cup of tea or something.
Lets go over some of the basics.
What I search for is a slave, rather plain and simple in that sense. A servant, a follower, a nonentity, chattel. Someone who prefers to live through service to someone else rather than to themselves. A person who finds gratification in the knowledge that they are of use.
A simple enough idea, but to get more specific of what it involves.
What I enjoy is high protocol and total power exchange, these for me are always the goal. Granted you don't start at the goal, but they should be share by you as well.
You will be taught all the skills I deem desirable, how you walk, how you speak, how you dress. This includes both domestic and sexual skills, as well as any others that may be useful for me.
Rules and regulations will dictate how things are accomplished, and to guide you to improve. It will define what you can do, and how you are allowed to do it.
These will however not be only limited to the sexual side of things, nor just at home. It will also be implemented in a way to help you achieve whatever it is you desire in life as well. To help you reach the goals you have set, could be to earn that degree, to be able to work with something you love, or perhaps just improve on yourself. I spent many a nights in my life making schedules, helping with homework or drilling people for interviews.
Although my interests and kinks span a wide area, there are a few things I deem more required than others, and I find those easier to mention than mile long lists. So here are some things you have to either enjoy, or be able to accept.
TPE, costume, exhibitionism, masochism, cum play, domestic servitude, orgasm control/denial, humiliation, wardrobe control, objectification, surveillance.
It is worth noting that I am a rather sadistic person. I enjoy inflicting pain and humiliation on a sub. Therefore masochism is a required trait. The exact level of sadism depends on person in question, since I am more interested in the results rather than the actual force behind it.
I am strict and demanding in what I do. I prefer to have as much control over someone as one can. I like influencing their life as much as possible, both for my own entertainment and satisfaction but also for their growth and improvement. I also generally expect the best out of people. I expect them to do their best in most things. I am rather literal in many cases.
I am not interested in short term deals, nor am I interested in something rushed or quick. These things take time, and I expect you to be able to invest said time in to it as well. I have no interest in doing anything with you until I feel comfortable in the fact that I know you well enough to utilize it. Equally, you should feel comfortable in it as well. Trust is important, and it takes time to build. I expect someone to be able to move forward with verification if we feel it is applicable rather soon. Since I do not enjoy spending weeks just to have someone bail when its time to verify who they actually are. I prefer voice or video calls, but text is fine until we get to know each other.
Although the goal is always something IRL, starting out online is not an issue. If we mesh well, we will figure out the IRL part together.
Communication is key, and I expect you to understand that.
As for some of the vanilla stuff, always been interested in IT and most subjects it involves, photography is a hobby but mostly limited to macro. Although I like pets, I am allergic to animals sadly. Which I know for some is a deal breaker and I don't blame them because pets are great. I naturally keep myself busy at most times, I just like having something to do.
If you got this far and do wish to respond, don't just respond with one word or a stray "hi", it is not useful. Give me a short introduction, explanation of what you desire, or question you might have.
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