24 [F4A] Looking for feminine presenting sadist domme to be my weight loss and look maxing coach and more in #Boston or #Online.

Im Ella. 5’5 and Im not sure what my weight is right now but it might be around 140. I don’t use scales so it’s a trigger but Id describe myself as skinny fat to average sized with fair skin, big brown eyes, long eyelashes and dirty brown hair. Im a baby face with chubby cheeks.

Im a very kinky person. I switch but obviously Im posting here looking for a dominant. You MUST be ok with slow texting as I have adhd and am introverted. But I do have solid communication skills and an imaginative detailed mind. I expect the same from you.

⭐️ ⭐️ What Im looking for ⭐️ ⭐️

I really like most women in general but I have a weakness for women on the thinner side and feminine looking women. I love a sadistic dominant top who gets wet objectifying, hurting and using me for her pleasure. Obviously RACK, PRICK and SSC are non negotiable during our play. You should be experienced with bdsm or at the very least well informed about it, as well as CNC. I want to be coached to lose lots of weight for a domme. Let her feminize and bimbofy me. Brainwashed with spirals and spammed with thin spo and gifs. I would end up a better and hotter version of me and you would end up with a toy that’s even shinier and prettier than it used to be. (Cough bonus points if you trigger me with pro ana/mia content and themes. We can discuss this.)

You 🚨 MUST 🚨 be ok brat taming. I have fight in me and like resisting and being punished as much as I like being used. Hopefully you like that too. Let me know your own kinks and limits in your first message to me!!! I get a lot of messages and prioritize higher effort ones.

My vanilla hobbies (honestly its helpful if we have things in common/can carry non kink related conversations but not a requirement): writing, reading, going out with friends, shopping, 420, playing on my nintendo switch, listening to true crime podcasts, watching sit coms, marvel, disney, horror, drama and reality shows plus movies. I also like playing with my ragdoll cat but I love all animals as well traveling and spa days.

HARD LIMITS: blackmail, zoophilia, exhibitionism, anything that is genuinely illegal, body/fat shaming, piss in holes, exposure play, forced masculine,

SOFT LIMITS: findom, age play, anal, scat,

OTHER KINKS (see other posts for other fantasies and full kink lists 🤤): trampling, plushie destruction, pain play, CNC, asphyxiation, forced intoxication, hypnosis, giantess, vore, breeding, home wrecking, slut shaming, chastity, cuck queening, misandry, misogyny, praise, slut shaming, bimbofication, corruption, naughty pissing, over stimulation, snuff, trauma dumping, misandry, misogyny, outfit control, pet play, free use, bondage, body writing, account control, branding,

MY PREFERRED WORD SYSTEM 🦺

I have personally found adhering to the “stop light approach” most effective through my years of being a kinkster. It’s quite simple.

❤️: Stop the scene!!!! Cease sex actions or talk. I am tapping out completely and we can discuss why and how to resume when I am ready. But if I employ this term I am triggered and need to stop all sexy times immediately.

YELLOW 💛: Pause the scene!!!!! What does yellow mean in traffic? Slow down. Same principle applies here. I use this when I don’t want to stop completely but Im starting to feel overwhelmed. It might mean we need to adjust something but it definitely means I need a check in. I will let you know why it had to be said at the time it is used and we can go from there.

GREEN 💚: Green means go. Yay! I don’t say this a lot because consent is obviously assumed the moment I reply to your initial messages. However I might use it after a previous red or yellow safe word use/break to indicate that I am ready to continue again. It’s just a good way for me to quickly reassure the dominance that Im good without disrupting the play’s flow.

Weight loss goals I hope to achieve: -Visible rib cage -Big thigh gap -XS clothing size

((Note I have been these things as recently as last year so this is an achievable goal for me not physically impossible or dangerous)).

Please write what drew you to my post as well as a general description of your kinks, limits and hobbies in your initial message to me. Id like to hear (and hopefully ideally see) what you look like too!!! The skinnier and more feminine the better honestly but Im open minded. A sadistic dominant streak and penchant for taming brats is definitely necessary for what I hope to achieve. I look forward to getting to know and maybe even serving you guys!!!