Experienced Dominant that falls somewhere between a true, structured Dominant and a Daddy (NOTE: no interest in any kind of age regression or age play).
As a Dominant, I'm as possessive as they come while also being the ultimate caretaker and protector for my submissive partner. I seek to lead and mentor my submissive partner in all things in a way that allows her to be the best version of herself. I would not say I'm a Service Dom, but I do very much enjoy looking out for what my partner needs and probably possess some traits of that type of Dominant partner. I'm detail oriented to a fault and that can typically be either very comforting for my partner in that the things they do are always noticed or it can be tedious. I think it just depends on the partner.
For my partner, I prefer someone intelligent, service oriented, independent (your own life, hobbies, interests, etc), eager, and loyal. Someone that's a natural caretaker, perceptive and empathetic that sees and serves the needs of her partner is ideal. I don't require this to be someone experienced, but a little knowledge and experience is nice. If you're inexperienced but eager and willing to learn and take guidance, I'm very open to that. Age wise, I'm also open as maturity matters more than age. 20-30. If you're outside of that and this speaks to you, go ahead and reach out.
Dynamic wise, I seek something that moves toward TPE or is full on TPE. I believe the dynamic should be 24/7 even though in public or with family/friends it may look a little lighter, the structure and dynamic is ever flowing and always present. Your place is your place, and my place is my place. I want us to be able to have day to day conversation and a normal life within the structure, rules and discipline that we set in place. I want date nights, nights in together, and all the things that life entails. I believe mostly in traditional gender roles within the flexibility of what is practical. There will be rules, discipline/punishments, routines, and some protocol as well.
Physically, I'm 6'0" and athletic/fit build and I've been told I'm attractive - you can be the judge. My typical type is someone fairly fit on some level (don't have to be a model), but I'm open to talking to just about anyone. Looks aren't everything (but attraction is important). I do stay very active and enjoy that. It would be my preference to find someone that also stays active as it's healthier, attractive, and also something we could enjoy doing together. Bonus points for petite or small but not a dealbreaker.
I'm sure there are many other things I could say here, but for now, that's a good start. If you have questions, please ask.
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