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31 [M4F] #Iowa #Online - Dom leaning switch looking for genuine connection in hard times.
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ThunderLizardX is a male age 31 looking for a female in Iowa
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To get things started, my name is Cory and I am a 31 year old guy living in Iowa, but I am more than open to long distance with the possibility of meeting in person/moving. I am not looking for strictly online, I am looking for a real full relationship in person eventually. I'm kind of nerdy. I'm into comics, movies, video games, true crime and more. I love cooking, writing and drawing. All that being said, I still absolutely love being outdoors. Physically, I am 6'1 and a plus size guy. I have recently lost a significant amount of weight, though. I am still very much body confident and comfortable in my own skin, still active and still take care of myself. I have fairly long hair, 12 tattoos and want many more. I have several piercings, with the possibility of more. I currently work as a barista, with plans to either move into management or go back to school. I still have to decide. I plan on moving in the near future, whether that be across town or across the country.

I'm switch, but I lean more dominant. My dom side is a soft dom/daddy dom. Iā€™m much more likely to praise you than to degrade you. But I absolutely can degrade you. Some kinks include praise, DDLG, orgasm control/denial/forced, watersports, and marking. These are all of course negotiable, my only hard limits are most of the usual ones such as anything too painful, illegal, unethical, and scat. I love honorifics and nicknames, when that point is reached and the trust is built. I like rules, to what extent can be discussed later. I truly love being the caretaker of my little in all ways both sexual and romantic. I have been in the lifestyle the better part of 5 years, largely stemming from 2 long term relationships that also happened to involve kink and specifically DDLG.

In a partner I am looking ideally for someone between mid 20s to mid 30s. That said, outside the obvious of please be 18 at least, I am generally not one to let age play a big factor. I prefer closer to my age, but if a connection happens it happens. I like someone who would hopefully have at least somewhat similar interests as me, even if we don't share them all. As comfortable going out as we would be just staying in and being together. Someone who has the same thoughts and beliefs as me, because I stand by my beliefs very strongly especially on subjects like equality. Someone kind, who is honestly willing to deal with some trauma on my end. I am by no means asking for you to be used as my therapist, I have one of those. But I have some trust and abandonment issues so please be kind and patient. I have looks and styles I prefer above others, as we all do, but that does not really matter in the end. Mutual attraction is always important, but I also very strongly believe in knowing and loving someone for who they are. If any of this sounds good, please feel free to message me. Tell me your favorite color so I know you've read this whole thing, please. Mine is purple. (:

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