Hello,

I am a guy from the middle of Europe, standing at around 1,75m high, in my early thirties, slim, with plenty of previous BDSM experience both from online and real life. While I would describe myself as a switch in real life, I lean heavily towards the submissive side - especially online. For that reason I am looking for a dom or domme, or a switch who would take the dominant role at least 95 percent of the time. I really have no preference for gender in my counterpart. Age-wise I would say preferably as old or older than myself. I would describe my experience in BDSM as a masochist and when it comes to real life dynamics also a service sub. If you are looking for a slave without limits and concerns, or if you just want to roleplay a fantasy, then please move on because I am not that person.

Instead, you will find that I am a self-reflecting person with a repertoire of kinks that in my opinion just work very well together. In my real life, I work full time in a stable job which I very much enjoy, I regularly do sports, and I have a passion for gaming and of course wasting time on the internet. I can and might talk forever about movies, TV shows, anime and music.
If you would describe yourself as a creative person, as very dominant and a sadist and would enjoy having power over a chill submissive, then let's talk.

First and foremost I like to find someone shares my fascinations and kinks. I want this to be a journey and its just so important to find somebody who is not in it for more than a session. If this fits for both of us, then I would like this to be long-term. Please take a look at my likes and limits, I know it is not much but the rest we need to figure out in a more dialog-driven way.

Pain: Turns out that I am pretty masochistic. In certain situations I really enjoy pain. In fact, I can orgasm from pain alone, which is a blessing and a curse considering my next kink in this list. But pain is definitely a turn on and a spanking, clamps and other sources of pain are almost always a great addition. Please also be into causing pain.

Chastity: Chastity and Orgasm Denial are also essential to me. While there are the odd moments of weakness, most of the time I just prefer to stay horny. Ideally in a small device. While I am not a huge fan of edging or other activities, I also quite enjoy how a chastity belt can grip everything down there, remind you of its presence and prevent everything from growing more than allowed.

Cages: Ever since I started my BDSM journey, I felt that cages are just something special. They limit where you can go and what you can do, even how much you can stretch. I currently do not own a cage, but I would be willing to invest in one at some point if we share that kink.

Collars: Love them as a symbol of submission. They are easy to wear at home and I quite enjoy that reminder. Currently I am not interested in taking them outside, but I had a great experience with chains that serve as ankle or hip bands for longer-term play. In my opinion, collars are another reminder to the wearer and not a clear sign to other people outside of the BDSM dynamic. Apart from all of that, being leashed by the collar to something stationary is just a great punishment.

Light feminisation: This is new to me but I think I enjoy feeling girlish and I would like to build on this. My definition of this could include removal of most body hair, eventually transitioning to female panties, and sometimes wearing bras or stockings under day to day clothes. Maybe wearing a feminine scent or a corset for body shaping. Sometimes full girl clothes at home. I do not identify as a sissy and would not want to go much into that direction. Instead I am very interested in achieving the best femboy look, with a calm and elegant aesthetic. I am ready to invest a little more in my wardrobe if this is something we share.

Humiliation: In private I am open to almost anything. I have plenty of real life experience with watersports and even some with diapers, if you are into this for the loss of control aspect (ageplay is not for me). I have grown to enjoy the humiliation kink quite a bit.

If you share my interests and if you are interested in building something up together, even if it means taking it slow at times, then please drop me a PM. Lets compare kinks and expectations, or even just share stories of past sessions. We will figure out if we are compatible.