Hi, I'm looking for a dom, and I would like to find someone who is the softer or gentler sort, please. I like someone who is generally confident and quite dominant, but when it comes to actual play and such, I'm very averse to harsh and rough things. It really makes me unhappy. Even if it's just in the bedroom, I genuinely don't enjoy a lot of pain. But I still am looking for something kinky, but with more of a sturdy and controlling but not aggressively mean type approach? This is as far as kinks are concerned, I mean. I hope that makes sense.
I like playing games together, such as tft, valorant, and other multiplayer games. I myself mostly regularly play genshin impact and dead by daylight, sometimes tft, but not much else by myself. I am open to an in-person dynamic or relationship etc. but I really value the idea of forming a stable connection and understanding between us first.
We don't have to go into it with intentions of dating or something outside of a dynamic, but I'm open to that idea should the circumstances work out and we both want it. I am not looking for poly, and if you already have an existing dynamic, relationship, or something similar, please don't contact me. I'm actually a switch, but I'm almost always a dom in my past relationships, if not just vanilla, but I have been wanting to look for someone who can be my dom, because I'm not able to be a dom all the time and I don't want that. I like someone who is considerate and intelligent. Please reach out if you think all of this sounds good to you.
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