Firstly I want to immediately get this out of the way. I am not interested in pro dommes, or anyone that requires a tribute. I'm down to make friends, preferably would like to find someone for a relationship. Not looking for hookups.

Aside from that a little about me. I am 23 year old man living in Philadelphia pa, standing at a staggering 5'6" with an athletic build weighing roughly 170 Ib's. Brown hair, brown eyes, clean shaven, kinda pale, with a decent bit of freckles. I have type 2 narcolepsy which isn't anything crazy just means I'm kinda tired all the time. Which has its benefits from time to time. I don't have much experience with BDSM, in fact I never had a partner so please be patient. I've been looking for a partner for a decent amount of time now and have had some bad experiences along the way. Lots of scams, two people even tried to blackmail me so don't please forgive me if I'm a bit skeptical. Other than that I would like to think I'm an open book so feel free to ask whatever you like.

Looking for someone to share some time with who shares some interest with me. I don't want a relationship entirely based around a dynamic or kink. I would like something mutual outside of that. Green flag if you like animals, I like pets, it always cool to meet whatever funny little friends people have. I would prefer someone around my age but am definitely open to starting something with someone a bit older than me. I am also big into aftercare, both giving and receiving. Im very sentimental about gifts and acts of kindness.

Right now I work I.T but outside of work I have a couple of pretty nerdy hobbies.

-D&D -Warhammer -Magic the gathering -Video games -Cooking and baking -Working out

I've actually traveled a decent bit around the world, so I'd say I'm well traveled for my age. I spent some time in Mississippi, Texas, North Carolina, and even lived in Japan for a couple years. Overall I had a great time seeing those places and would definitely like to see more of the world.

In terms of kink, I'm definitely a sub, I don't think I have a single Dom bone in my body. I don't have much experience but am very open to new things. I do have some limits and some favorites though, but if something isn't expressly mentions below feel free to ask and I'll let you know how I feel about it.

Kinks Bondage of all kinds, latex, hypnosis, praise, collars, and pegging.

Soft limits Pain

Hard limits Humiliation, degradation,CBT, and bodily fluids.

So if you read through all that and find any of it interesting feel free to sending me a message.