I have been in the lifestyle for around 11 years, and experience with different D/s dynamics from the very gentle DDom to the fairly dark and sadistic. My favorite place to be is just over the gentler but firm side of things while occasionally delving into harsher themes when the mood strikes me or if you're asking for it. I love chatting with someone as I nonchalantly touch and pet them, playing with their hair and almost before they realize they are having problems putting sentences together as they get lost in my attention. If that sounds like fun, you are who I'm looking for.

I love when my partners excel so expect some training in regards to bettering yourself. I will always encourage you to chase your passion, work, or self care because it will make us both happier.

I am not a switch nor do I have any tendencies toward submission, but I do have a particular passion for being the person where otherwise incredibly domineering and successful women enjoy taking a break. Brats, domme leaning switches, and subs who like to try to fight are all very welcome. That being said I will always have a soft spot in my heart for sweet girls who just want cuddles or don't have it in them to do anything but try to please, so cute.

I have a laundry lists of kinks all of which center around the idea of power exchange. Some of my favorites include CNC, freeuse, protocol, brainwashing, and hypnosis. There have been very few things I have tried that explore the D/s power exchange that I have not enjoyed, just because a kink isn't listed doesn't mean its not present. I love seeing the impact I have on my partner, and seeing them shift for me over time.

About me: 33, cis/amab, 6'1'', 260, blonde hair, green eyes, in the US.

About you: Excited about the prospect as you read this post, cis/afab, looking for something long term and meaningful, intelligent, and open to exploration.

Limits: Anything illegal, blood, scat, animals

Start by telling me about yourself, your experience, and something you're passionate about. Let's chat.