Hey there sweetheart,

I’m a 31-year-old soft dom with years of experience exploring and deepening what a d/s relationship can be. For me, it’s all about connection and trust, less about punishment and meaningless control. I’d rather gently praise you to pleasure than to push you with force—I believe the mind is the most powerful pleasure center, and I want to make good use of yours.

Who I Am

I’m pretty grounded. I work in finance, own a house, and generally have my life together. In my free time, I’m usually either gaming (tabletop and PC), writing and producing TTRPG content, or doing some voice acting and producing music. Creativity is a huge part of who I am, and I’d love to connect with someone who appreciates that or shares that same identity.

What I’m Looking For

I’m looking for a female submissive who’s either already interested in d/s dynamics or is curious to learn more. Whether you’re experienced or totally new to this, if you’re open to an honest, communicative partnership where we both feel seen and valued, I think we'll work great together.

Since this is primarily online, trust will be the paramount aspect of this partnership. I hope you’re comfortable building a connection through regular check-ins, whether that’s by text, voice memos, or, eventually, photos or videos. I’m not here for scandalous pics—I’m here to build something real and lasting, even if it stays online.

For full transparency: I’m married and have a kid, so my availability is a bit structured around family life. I’m looking for a non-romantic d/s connection and need a partner who’s comfortable with that arrangement.

The Dynamic I Envision

I like providing structure and organization, so expect regular and/or recurring tasks, check-ins, rules to follow, and other exciting ways to keep us connected. Power transfer and consensual control will be the foundation of our partnership. To be clear, I won’t ask for anything that could disrupt your life—I know you have other priorities like work, school, or family, and I’ll respect that balance. I want to be an important part of your life, but I don’t need to be the center of it.

Once we’ve built trust, I’d enjoy exploring kinks and guiding you in areas you may be curious about but haven’t had the chance to try yet. I want us to enjoy play sessions when we can but understand that we’ll slowly work up to that as our trust for each other grows.

If This Catches Your Interest

If this sounds like the kind of dynamic you’re interested in, introduce yourself with your age, gender, pronouns, and location (if comfortable). I’d love to know a bit about your level of experience, your IRL and kinky interests, and what drew you to my post. And if you have questions, feel free to ask—trust is a two-way street.

I look forward to seeing where this might go. Talk to you soon.