Heey there

I'm interested in finding a relationship involving: role reversal / gentle femdom / kink dynamics / etc.

With that being said, I am still very much a normal guy with normal everyday hobbies and interests. I’m not looking to throw all my kinks and fantasies at you. I want to meet someone who hopefully shares some of my regular interests as well as the kinky stuff. I want someone I can talk and laugh with everyday, to hang out with and have late night chats with. I’m also looking for someone that likes to take the lead as i am new to reddit and stuff

I’ll apologize in advance for the novel I am about to write, but I’d really like to put myself out there in the hopes of meeting someone to explore this lifestyle with

About Me:

I’m a very easy-going, introvert that enjoys sports, movies, driving , video games (it cant get anymore generic than this xd i bet an ai could have said the same ). I enjoy the kind of hobbies that I can do on my own to relax – but I’ve also been longing to have someone to share these things with. I am a huge motorsport guy and in love with anything with an engine what can i say i am a simple man.

I’m 178cm, 68kg, dark hair, brown eyes, slim. I have an active lifestyle and enjoy working out. I try to eat (relatively) healthy when i find the time (and dont have the laziness to order online). Taking care of my health is something that has become very important to me, and I’d love to meet someone with the same values.

Okay, enough with the boring self-descriptions that make me cringe reading it back. Describing myself is not my strength! I’m secretly really cool!

Kinky Stuff:

While I do have my own kinks, I want to start by saying the most exciting aspect of D/s relationships for me is the power exchange. The thought of being under someone else's control is ironically... freeing. I understand that being a sub takes a lot of commitment and I'd love nothing more than to find the right person to commit to.

I have a bit of BDSM experience but I’m still relatively new to this. I enjoy the softer side of domination

• Bondage
• Tease and Denial - Big fan of being teased. The denial part doesn't sound as nice, but I guess that isn't up to me.
• Orgasm Control - Kind of goes with the teasing and denying.
• Femdom
• Open-minded about trying most kinks.

Hard Limits:

Toilet/scat - just not for me

Extreme pain/blood - ouch

Forced bi/cuckolding

Findom

About You and What I'm Looking For:

I would love to hear YOUR fantasies too. Communication is important and I want to know what I can do to make your life better. Want me to bring you food? Give you a massage? I would love nothing more than to make you happy!

Obviously the BDSM dynamic is partially what I’m looking for, otherwise I wouldn’t be posting here. More importantly though, is someone that I can really connect with on a personal level. I am monogamous and not particularly interested in polyamory. If you are just looking for a casual D/s relationship, I could potentially explore it. But I am mainly interested in finding an actual loving relationship along with the kink.

I would prefer someone between the ages of 20-35. This isn't a hard limit though. If you're slightly outside that, I could make an exception for the right person.

If you found this post interesting, then please send me a message 😊