Hey there, since you have opened this I am assuming you are a submissive girl looking for a Dom. Well, read ahead and if you feel that we can be a good match, message me and we can chat to figure this out.

For starters, consider the following points: * This will be a detailed post so please read it all before sending me a chat invite. * I will not reply back to any messages which just say a "Hi/Hey". You will need to put some effort in your response. * I will respond back to each message which is detailed, so don't hesitate before texting. * Finally I am only looking for an Online dynamic for now.

Who Am I?
An experienced Dom looking for a sub with whom I can connect. This is not a search for a sexting, rather I am looking forward to finding the one who craves to meet her missing dominant half.

I am a 29 yr old guy currently working in tech. I have about 2 years of experience in the world of BDSM, during which I have had some great dynamics. They helped me explore many things and figure out my likes and limits. In terms of my physical description, I am 5'11, brown eyes, dark black hairs with a medium sized build.

Kinky Me:

My style of BDSM revolves around conversations and getting to know each other. These conversations (both vanilla and kink) will help us understand each other better while at the same time making the dynamic feel more personal. Also I feel this helps establish trust for both of us. My likes include a variety of things like different forms of control (Orgasms, toys, clothing, sleep), nipple and clit play, ice and wax, spankings, pain, humiliation. I am always looking to try out new stuff and explore more. Limits include blackmail, illegal stuff, underage, incest, scat, involving family.

I use a traffic light system for safe words:

1. Red - We stop whatever we are doing and talk about what went wrong
2. Yellow - This is to show that while it is still bearable, things are getting a bit uncomfortable for you.

Vanilla Me

In terms of my vanilla life, I love to read, travel and go out to meet friends. I also like to go for swimming and of-course dancing (Not really great at it but I still dance a lot as I love it). I like to talk about all kinds of things and you can always feel free to talk to me about any topic. My normal days are occupied with my work but I still have enough time to dedicate to my dynamics.

What I am expecting from you

I don' have any expectations in terms of your experience. You can be complete newbie or a very experienced sub. All I want in you is a willingness to serve, learn and try out new things. I also want you to be able to hold a conversation that is not about Kink. In reality, we can't talk about kink all day, so I would want this dynamic to be a place where both of us can also discuss vanilla things with each other. I also expect respect and honesty towards our dynamic.

Note - I know both of us have our private lives other than this so I don't expect you to devote all your time to our dynamic. We can discuss this in more detail if we decide to move forward.

How should you respond?

Well if you are still here that means you are interested to talk about this. As you can see I have tried to put some effort in this and want you to do the same. Reply back with the following things:

1. Tell me about yourself, your age, timezone etc.
2. What is your experience
3. What are your likes and Limits
4. What do you expect from your Dom

I don' expect you to answer or know all these things. Try to answer whatever you can.

Feel free to reach out, ask any questions you might have for me and rest assured, I will answer back to everyone who puts an effort in their message.

Note - My reddit profile might seem empty as I don't use it a lot. However I am active on FetLife and can send you my username if required.