Thanks for stopping by, internet stranger. If you're ready to explore the wilder side of your kinks and break the monotony of solo discovery, this could be just the start. Read on!

I’m a 38-year-old male switch from Europe. I'm looking for a playful, creative, like-minded play partner who can appreciate both sides of the dynamic as much as I do. I’m not looking for strict roles or a 24/7 Dom/sub setup; I’d much rather connect with someone who wants to create a flexible, playful space where we’re both free to express ourselves, explore new edges, escape the daily grind, have fun, and yes, get a little (or a lot actually) naughty along the way.

What I'm Looking For:

• An online (long term) connection that’s about more than just kink. Let’s chat regularly, laugh, rant, talk about things we care about, and of course, enjoy some naughty times!
• Location/time zone doesn’t really matter, though a few hours of overlap would be a plus. If we live relatively close I’d be more than happy to meet at some point but that’s not a requirement at all!
• A partner who values communication, fun, trust, and mutual enjoyment. These are the foundation for any exploration I want to dive into.
• Someone who’ll set the rules one day, then flip the coin the next day and follow my rules (doesn’t that sound sexy and fun?).
• An open-minded explorer of all sorts of play! I consider myself a curious traveler in the world of pleasure & kinks, always excited to discover more (and there’s a lot!)

A Little Bit About Me:

• I’m in an ethically non-monogamous relationship (I know that’s a dealbreaker for some, so I wanted to mention it right away). My partner and I are a bit kinky, but there’s more I want to explore independently.
• I love plants, gardening, and nature (I might have too many plants inside and out). Music usually follows me all day, I enjoy cooking, and I generally love building things with my hands.
• I’m creative in all aspects of my life, but especially when it comes to kinky tasks, rewards, and punishments. I get a thrill out of crafting complex tasks that can keep you on edge for hours (or days!)
• I work from home, which gives me plenty of time and options.
• I'm as caring and attentive as I am adventurous. I value mutual respect and making sure we both feel valued in whatever we explore together.
• Physically, I’m 5'4", slim but still muscular, long dark hair, beard and a little bit of body hair.

My Top 3 Kinks (Giving or Receiving): Orgasm control, anal play, pleasure and pain. I also love giving praise and worship, doesn’t that just make everything hotter? Of course, there’s a lot more to explore, but let’s talk about that in private ;)

If this resonates with you, send me a message! Let’s chat, see where things go, and maybe start crafting some shared mischief.

Looking forward to meeting a kindred spirit (or twisted partner in crime)!