Throwing a hail mary and shooting for the stars, plus a change up in my approach. This post is much heavier on the sex and kink side of things, so I’ll get the vanilla out of the way fairly quick. If you really want to know more older posts on my profile will shed some light. I’m 6’5”, white, black hair (though the greys have officially begun), brown eyes. I exercise often and expect you to too. High intensity sports, lifting minimum 4 times a week, and cardio. That being said I also like beer and ice cream so if you’re expecting a rock hard six pack you’re going to be disappointed. Life in balance and all. To that end I’m not looking for physical perfection out of you (definitely not turning it down either haha), but not even making an effort is a hard no. My two big caveats are “good enough” teeth and cannot have a flat ass. I’m sorry, I can be attracted to a wide variety of shapes and sizes but that’s one I can’t get over.

I’m looking for a long term relationship, potentially marriage and all that jazz. Open minded to adventure is a must. I'm currently in KC and am very ready to be physically close to someone, but a couple of notes related to that. If you're not local to KC but are relocating soon we can talk and see where it goes. In addition to that, I don't intend to stay in KC for more than the next six months, so whoever is interested needs to be aware of that. I don’t intend to have kids. That’s all I’m going to say on that for now. Like I said, vanilla in an old post.

On to the fun stuff. I’m seeking a submissive woman, 26-30 years old, local to the Kansas City area. A little travel will do but it’s physical intimacy I’m looking for. I have a high sex drive and need someone with a similar drive. Kinks, in no particular order, include hair pulling, anal, free use, clothing control, some rules, light bondage, face fucking, begging, and cock worship. Not an exhaustive list but a start. Appearance is a big one for me, so dressing provocatively, lingerie, and high heels are a must. Someone with exhibitionist tendencies, very comfortable with and not shy about their own bodies. Some elements of a bimbo kink. I’m not interested in the overinflated look but the sex object frame of mind. Punishments administered as necessary, and can range from physical to mental or some combination thereof. I have an interest in behavior modification as well that I’d like to explore.

A bit of a departure from the typical quiet sub expectations, I highly encourage you to embrace your sexuality. Masturbation, toys, porn, and initiating sexual activity. There’s some caveats, asterisks, and rules in there but we can discuss that later. I also highly enjoy making out, could do it for hours on end, and you’re encouraged to kiss me whenever. This isn’t an exhaustive list, and I’m open to exploring your kinks as well.

Please come to me ready to be an active participant. I put in a fair amount of effort and I’m not looking for a starfish in text or in the bedroom. I am slow to get to active sex/play but I do want to establish comfort discussing it early on. Outside of that I’m looking for a life partner so engaging outside of the bedroom is very important as well.

Limits include: scat, age play, blood, knife/gun/weapon play