My Vanilla Side :)

I’m 20 years old, currently working on a personal trainer course while also working part-time in retail. I’m 6ft tall, weighing around 75kg, and bulking at the moment, so I'm semi-muscular and still working on getting jacked, the body in question - https://imgur.com/a/TBDgS1l . I’ve got brown hair and eyes, and I’m rocking a short middle part right now, aiming for that Hugh Grant look from his younger days (a bit ambitious, I know, but I’m giving it a shot!). I can also pull off short hair, but I find it a bit boring. People often say I have a baby face with chubby cheeks, which apparently comes off as cute. My face fluctuates with weight changes, and I’ve had some battles with acne, but I’m still recovering from that. I prefer staying clean-shaven, both on my face and body, but sometimes I let it slide when I can’t be bothered -not that I can grow a beard anyway. :(

My Interests

My interests are all over the place, but fitness is a huge part of my life. I’m definitely a gym rat. Recently, I’ve gotten back into reading, mostly self-help books, though I’m open to suggestions as my taste is still developing. I game occasionally, mostly hardcore Minecraft at the moment, but my go-to is League of Legends (I know, I’m scum). I’m easily persuaded into trying any game, especially if it’s multiplayer. Music is a constant for me - there’s always something playing wherever I am. I love discovering other people’s playlists and giving them detailed (sometimes tough) reviews.

I’m also a huge anime lover. I’ve been watching it for a while and could talk about it for hours. I’ve probably seen just about everything. Right now, I’m watching A Sign of Affection.

I’m pretty social, even though I don’t get out much. I’m still working on becoming more of a people person, but I tend to fall into introvert mode in public, often with a resting bitch face. That said, I’m full of energy and usually in a great mood—unless I’m hungry! I love going out for activities and adventures, but I’m just as happy staying in and chilling. I can be talkative once I get comfortable with people, but I also know how to hold a regular conversation. Once I start joking with someone, I know I’m comfy with them. I pick up on people’s little habits and use them in banter, so my humor often comes off as witty—don’t be surprised if I remember random details about you!

Kinks

I’m happy to chat more about kinks, but I’ll start by listing my favorites. I’m very open to exploring new things, as long as they don’t cross my limits (which I’ll mention later). So, if your favorite kinks aren’t listed here, there’s a good chance I might be into them—I just may not know it yet.

Orgasm Control - While I’ve built self-control with urges through NoFap, the idea of you deciding when I get to touch myself is a huge turn-on. I love the thought of earning it, knowing it’s never guaranteed. I usually come off as level-headed, but when I’m denied for long periods, I become more desperate and submissive, which just makes me melt.

Pegging/Anal Play - This was the kink that first introduced me to the scene, and it’s stayed with me. I dream of the day you penetrate me. There’s honestly nothing sexier than the thought of you wearing a strap-on and making me yours (I’m kicking my feet in the air just thinking about it!).

Praise/Light Degradation - I melt when I hear praise after both sexual and non-sexual activities—whether it’s cooking dinner for you, helping you with something, or just in general. I prefer when it’s natural, not forced. On the flip side, light degradation is a huge turn-on, especially during spicy moments. Being called a slut, bitch, or whore never fails to get me. Collaring is also really intriguing—not in a pet play way, but more as a symbol of ownership. Earning a collar could be a whole adventure on its own and add depth to our dynamic.

While kinks are fun, they aren’t a dealbreaker for me. I’m more focused on building a genuine connection.

Limits

I’m looking for a monogamous relationship - just between you and me. My hard limits include forced bi, sounding, scat, blood, extreme cbt, public activities, and exhibitionism. Outside of those, I’m open to exploring new things, though I may discover more limits along the way. I’d really appreciate you respecting my boundaries as I learn and grow.

Experience

To be upfront, I have no in-person sexual experience. I’ve dabbled in the online scene, but it doesn’t quite fit what I’m looking for. As much as I enjoy texting, I’m more interested in in-person experiences. I feel like that’s where I’ll really shine - planning dates and doing things together irl.

That said, I think the online aspect can help bridge the gap. I love texting, having long phone calls that go past bedtime, listening to music together, and watching anime or movies. If you’re not comfortable jumping straight into in-person, I’m happy to take things online until you feel ready.

You

Ideally, you’re looking for a long-term, romantic, and monogamous relationship. A big factor for me is location, hopefully in Australia, preferably Melbourne, since that’s where I live. If you’re outside Melbourne but think we’d click, I’m open to it, though Melbourne is my preference.

Age-wise, I’m not too picky. Anywhere from 18 to 30 works, and the closer to my age, the better. I’m comfortable with older women, too. Looks aren’t a huge deal for me because I think a real connection matters more, but I’d prefer to exchange some SFW pictures so it doesn’t feel like I’m just talking to a blank screen.

If you’re into fitness, that’s a huge bonus! It’d be fun to have a gym buddy. I’ll admit, I have a soft spot for curvy bodies and dark hair, but hey, we all have our preferences!

Well, that’s about everything I could think of. If anything caught your interest, feel free to reach out and see if we click. I’d appreciate a proper introduction from you - it doesn’t have to be anything over the top, just enough to give me a sense of who you are.

Also, let me know your favorite food (yes, I’ll cook it for you if things work out, so choose wisely). It's also a good way for me to know you’ve read everything!