I'm searching for something deeper, more intimate, and more intense than any sort of hookup can provide. If you're like me you're searching here because you're out of other options when it comes to finding someone who gets it. The relationship I'm looking for extends beyond the bedroom into every aspect of your life until one day you find that you've been fully transformed by it. It's the sort of relationship that's not meant to be understood, but experienced.

Yes, this takes openness, vulnerability, and total honesty. And I get it, not everyone is ready for that... chances are you don't even know if you're ready for that. But I invite you to detach from logic and reason and instead listen to what you feel inside when you imagine yourself in this type of dynamic.

The good news for you is that you don't need to know what to do - in fact that's best - because I am your guide. We begin by feeling that spark - the right vibe, the electricity, feeling like we "get" one another - and then we bring the process of opening you up. You let me in to your pretty little mind and like a supermodel displaying a sports car you will show me the most meaningful parts of who you are - the good and, most importantly, the not-so-good. The hardest parts are the most important but don't worry, we'll face them together. You show me who you are so that I can show you who you can become.

As you let me in I begin to make myself at home inside of your mind with you. You don't mind, do you? I plan to stick around here for a while, help you manage things, guide you, and... slowly but surely... make you mine. But don't worry, not in any sort of way anyone else would know or understand, we don't need others judging. Because we live by our own rules. Our relationship doesn't look like typical relationships because the trust that's needed for this dynamic goes far deeper than anything most people even begin to understand, let alone advise...

But what are you here for on this Earth? For what others think you should be like... or is it for what you know you need? And if you're like me you need someone that you want to be with all day, every day, no matter what - this becomes our lives and everything else just plays their part in it. That's a lot of time together so it's a good thing we make it fun by talking about every intimate detail with one another like what you should do, think, or say to others. I have you practice it when we're alone so that when we're around others you can show me how proud you can make me by demonstrating what I've trained you to do.

After all, isn't it nice to not have to worry about thinking? You're a listener, you know how to follow directions, you are deeply loyal and ready to obey. You bring your daily life to my lap and whisper it in my ear and I praise you for being all mine and continue to work on thinking for you, because you know it's better to have someone else sort out all of those details. And who better than the person you've become inseparable from? And in exchange, with that weight lifted from you, you can dedicate all of your energy to your devotion.

Does this resonate with you? Do you get it even though most people don't? I'd like to hear from you.