Hi there, I'm a big gentle teddybear daddy dom type. My natural state is super affectionate, there's nothing I love more than physical touch. I'm currently based in the Gold Coast, QLD. I don't enjoy age regression, and I don't even need to have a "DDLG or CGL" relationship - it's just a good description of who I am. I'm the kind of guy that walks on the side of the road with the cars so that I get hit instead of you. I love to hold hands, snuggle, shower together, brush your hair etc.
I'm a bit over 6'1 tall and a fairly big guy but working on it and making respectable progress. I don't smoke or drink and while neither are a deal breaker for me, it'd be a plus if you didn't. My idea of fun when it comes to going out is going to the movies, restaurants, exploring & fishing etc. I lead a pretty simple life, I'm not into partying and clubs etc. I find myself going for a fish for a couple hours once or twice a week now since I'm just a 15-minute drive from the beach.
I am a soft dom with a few hard kinks mixed in. I don't want to live the lifestyle 24/7, I am a pretty 'normal' person the majority of the time. Kink-wise I love anal, choking, nipple/breast play and creampies. I have interest in exploring discrete public play/punishment, rope play, pet play, wax/candle play, edging & denial, forced orgasms and more on the harder side. I like a mix of mental and physical punishments and kinks and believe that we can develop the trust required for these grand occasional performances over time. Almost like we build enough trust so that I can break you, knowing that I will put you back together afterwards.
I am very attracted to petite/slim/pocket rocket types physically. A tiny girl who could sit in my lap and just get swallowed up would be amazing. I think I'd be a good match for a service submissive, or a babygirl who is looking for some guidance and structure. I've considered the idea of a family situation with sister wives or a girl with a cuckquean fetish and would love to discuss and explore the idea more with the right girl(s). I'm definitely at the right point in my life where even with this in mind I would like to meet someone who will be in my life forever who together I could raise children with when the time is right.
I have a degree and work full-time, and I'm looking forward to building a career. Long term I see myself eventually trying to get out of the big cities and getting a piece of land, maybe trying my hand at a little bit of homesteading with animals and a garden, having somewhere to have friends over gathered around a fire and disconnecting from large cities and reliance on the global supply chain to survive.
I play video games for fun in my spare time and will give most a shot but also spend the majority of my time playing the same handful. (League, OSRS, Diablo etc.) I'm keen to spend more time doing other things in my spare time but it's always been a comfort of mine.
I'd much rather not talk about his sort of stuff all together, because it only really upsets people and goes in circles - but for your own information before you reach out you may want to know certain things beforehand:
- I'm not really pro trans but I'm not anti-human. What a consenting adult does I don't think should be my business, but I have real concerns when it comes to children and sports.
- I'm really not a fan of what people call the political left (But I hate the terms left and right wing) - I wish we could just independently form opinions on topics instead of basing our opinions off our identity. Some of my opinions lean left and some lean right, I'd love to meet someone similar.
- I think masculinity and femininity are super important - I hate buzz words like toxic masculinity. I do listen to people like Joe Rogan etc. I would love to meet a girly girl who is into all this kinky stuff but still wants something somewhat traditional. I'm not huge on marriage (Lotta divorces in my family) but maybe with the right girl.
- I eat a lot of meat (and think it's healthy to do so) so unless you're a vegan with a primal/prey kink you may want to reconsider.
Please feel free to reach out if any of this sparks an interest. Can't wait to hear from you! P.S Remember to drink plenty of water. :)
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