Married Couple looking for a female pro Dom San Antonio texas

We’re a 35 year married couple who have been having fun and spicing up our life the last couple years.

We were introduced to the BDSM kink at a swingers club in Vegas a year or so ago. And we really enjoyed it.

So we have explored this kink as much as we can here and there and like it so far.

The last couple of weeks we rented a BDSM dungeon Airbnb and my wife had some sexy boudoir photos taken there and then we got to play with all the equipment for the night and next day and had a whole Lotta fun.

We are looking at renting the dungeon again to do more sexy boudoir photos and include myself this time and we would like to hire a female dom to come in for two or three hours the same night.

And if she’s interested and approves, we would like to invite her to take a few photos with us dressed up toward the end of the shoot with us. Just to give us memories for later in life.

And then we would like her to start a, two or three hours Demonstration on my wife and I.

I realized that I like to watch my wife as she gets attention from others …….and she likes the attention from others and also enjoys being flogging on the cross.

I tried flogging my wife but learned it takes skill and I can’t flog her AND also enjoy watching her get pleasure at the same time.LOL. So I would rather sit on the couch and have another person flog and I just watch her have fun most of the time and join in on occasion.

And then for my first time ever would like to experiment with the flogging on the cross myself😱. Not to sure on this but at least want to say I tried.

What I would really like to try and see how I like is to dabble with some edging, orgasm denial, and the ruined orgasm as I’m tied up on the cross or a table. It look so temping in talk and videos but will I really enjoy….. no way to know other than jump in…. Let it hang out and give it my best try.

I’m sure there’s some other stuff my wife would like to experience, like nipple play, electro shock, and other types of pleasure/pain.

I am thinking our best bet is to hire somebody to do this first time as we are not looking to add a third person in our life permanent yet.

We have had a threesome before and it was really fun and I wouldn’t mind having another one, but with the right person and at right time. Just think not this time, we just need to focus on the kink and see which way we want to pursue……. BDSM or threesomes

Again, the reason we want to hire someone because we don’t wanna have feelings toward her or have her thinking that we’re using her. We will be donating for her time to show us the BDSM and put on the show with my wife for me……and then put on a show with me for my wife…. And then again if all goes good, we all can enjoy the time at the same time.

I think it would be good. Also, if she is a bi female dominatrix so that way she is comfortable playing or touching my wife. And I also want her OK touching me. This is NOT for sex!! But I have read some doms will not touch you……. And will only command you to edge yourself or ruin an orgasm. That to me is impossible to do myself if I’m tied up…. And that’s the high I’m after is being tied up and teased with no control.

But I want her ok touching us both demonstrating and up to guiding us how to touch each other or as I say doing orgasm denials for both of us

Where is a good place to find a female Dom to hire in around San Antonio, Texas?

We live in Austin but found the dungeon air BNB in San Antonio.

I’ve looked on Tyrst link website and there was only three listed and I’ve tried to look on fetlife, but I struggle trying to find where to look or how to post looking for dom.

We do not want to lead a female on for a relationship, or think she is just a toy for us to play with. But willing to donate for her time to introduce us a little deeper into the kink

Any tips for ideas to find a dominatrix for us to be able to experiment further to decide if we want to dive in. All help is appreciated.

Or if I should post anywhere else for better reply’s

Thank again