how do I say this without sounding too picky.. I have tried something like this before. I’m looking for something very specific - if you get it, you get it. I am in a relationship, I wear the pants, I work the shifts, I need a break. I have always craved degradation and submission in an all encompassing way. I want this experience from someone who really feels superior to me. I also need a spiritual connection, I need meaningful conversations. I’m too exhausted to keep forcing it.

I am chubby, a bit goth, tattoos. I enjoy all forms of human expression, particularly art, sculpting, poetry, songwriting for myself. I like learning, I’d like to share my perspectives and hear yours. We can talk more if you’re curious.

I’m looking for a sadistic dom who enjoys all aspects of domination, mental/physical pain (cnc?), someone who can make me feel little. Someone who likes dancing between sex and psychological warfare. I have a particular kink for that sort of thing, maybe a better word is just bullying. If you’re sour and sweet, I’ll be obsessed. This goes without saying but I also enjoy people with similar interests. I am a very observant person and I want someone similar, someone open minded that seeks truths over conformity. This is very important to me as I can only feel justified in giving my most intimate self to someone who I truly respect.

I will wait to call or send nudes after a real bond is established. I want something that I can take slowly and again, I am currently taken. I just need to know what is out there. My brain has been completely taken over by libido and this particular craving for a few weeks so we do what we must. I like to do a lot of texting.

Side note - choking, face fucking, anal, most of the other extremes.. this sort of thing is my bag, baby. I don’t look like I do only to have boring sex.