I hope all is well as you are reading this. As the title states, I'm looking for a submissive.... my submissive.

I am a 30 year old male Dom looking for a D/s and romantic relationship with a submissive. I am bi, with a heavy lean toward female presenting people, but shoot your shot if you are interested, but please note that facial hair is a massive turn-off for me. (Really anything that could be attributed to the "bear" archetype I suppose). Age isn't ultimately important with me, but I'm not interested in anyone older than 35.

I am looking to start things online, but want to be able to move things to in person within a few months. I currently live in Sussex County, so I am really only looking for someone within under a 2 hour drive, as to make any potential meeting in the middle fair to both of us.

I do not have a definite type, apart from feminine(ish) and submissive, though I do have a preference for someone shorter than myself.

I'm looking for someone who matches my kinks and fetishes on the subby side of them. I divide those kinks by how important to me they are.

Must Haves: Gags; Spanking/Pain Based Punishments; Anal; Medium to Heavy Bondage; Verbal Degradation/ Humiliation; Collaring while in the D/s dynamic

Things I Enjoy: Remote Toy Control [lovense and similar]; Discreet Public Play; Chastity, Control/ Keyholding; Full Time Collaring; Discreet Public Bondage [gag under a face mask, rope harness, etc]; Corsets; Cosplay Fantasies; CNC, Wax Play; Sensory Deprivation

Things I can do Without but still enjoy: Latex; Extreme Heels Training; Various Role Plays; Electro Play

My Limits: Soft Limits [maybe someday with the right partner]: Being called Daddy, Piss play Hard Limits [NEVER]: DDlg, Diaper Play, ABDL, Blood, Scat, and Vomit, Knife Play

Ultimately I am searching for a partner in life, and a slave in the dungeon. I am Monogamous and will not start something long term with someone who is not. However, I am open to FwB while not in a relationship. Not looking for just a hookup.

As to myself outside of kink. I stand at 5'7", 210 lbs. I have shoulder length brown hair and brown eyes. I wear glasses. AuDHD I am a nerd who plays D&D weekly, and read at least 1 book a week. I'm a frequent moviegoer and also enjoy Broadway shows. I build and collect various model kits and Lego sets. I also paint miniatures for D&D. My interests cover a wider range than those, but they are the main ones.

So, if you think you might be interested in me, and have gotten this far, please send me a message. I'd love to hear from you. Please start with your favorite color, so I know you read everything.