Hi all, I've posted before, but I'm going to try to put as much thought into this as possible, so I do appreciate anyone who makes it through this!
SFW About me: I'm 29 years old. 5'7 and 125 pounds. I'm generally pretty skinny, but do make up for it in my rear. I tend to look quite young, and don't really grow any facial hair anywhere. I live in Santa Monica and work in finance. I don't know if I'll be in the industry forever, but it's comfortable living and allows for a great work life balance, which is not the norm in the industry.
I love to read and just finished the book blindness (if anybody has read this I'd love to chat about it). I also love movies and tv shows, and have recently been going through a Steven Soderbergh kick, but I welcome any and all recommendations. I also love restaurants and cooking shows, but have had to cut back on that this year given the pandemic.
Kink wise: I do truly enjoy being submissive and putting the female first (in more ways than sexually), so while it may be simple things like massages when you come home for work, or treating you to nice dinners I would hope to make you feel truly appreciated and cherished. In terms of in the bedroom, "worshiping you" is high on the list. Face-siting, footworship, ass worship, pussy worship are all enjoyable. Tease and denial is also a big one. I'd love to try pegging, but really have no idea if I'd enjoy it. I'd say light pain is generally ok, but would love to explore with you and figure out what you really like.
Limits: I'm really open to most, but I don't have interest in public submission, anything permanent, blackmail, anything involving friends or family, or scat. Almost everything else I'd be willing to try once.
In terms of my experience: I've "submitted" to two pro-dommes and had one female lead relationship. I thought the pro-dom experience was fun, but not exactly what I am looking for, as I'd much rather build a relationship and get to know someone (and the scenes can feel pretty forced). I would say I've done a significant amount of research on kink and generally know what I would be into/not into, but I am really open to exploring and ultimately want you to be happy. It might sound cliche, but my ultimate kink is making you happy and getting you off everything else truly comes second and can be discussed.
Who I hope you are: Around my age, but no firm limits. I generally take care of my body and hope you do to (I'm sorry if that's harsh, but attraction is important on some level). I'm hope you are motivated outside the bedroom and are also trying to grow as a human. My preference would be that you live in southern california so we could see each other and really get to know each other, but I would not be opposed to connecting with someone online and seeing where it goes. By online that does not mean I'm asking to get naked on cam for you, etc. I do truly want to get to know you and I find that's probably easiest on the phone or over video chat. Maybe we play maybe we don't, that's not really important to me, it's more important to get to know you.
I know this was a ton so if you happened to make it through this, then I commend you! Hope to hear from all of you soon :).