I’m 29 and based in the UK. I’m a somewhat quiet introverted person, though over the last couple of years I’ve been growing more comfortable with myself and working on a lot of things towards personal confidence and satisfaction. I’m certainly happier about myself than I was ten years ago; having achieved a post-graduate degree, making progress with my career and creative practices and having a few breakthroughs along the way has meant I’m now wanting to push my boundaries and explores new connections and showcase a more Dominant personality.

I’m fairly new to BDSM culture, sort-of been on the fringe for several years while and wanting to do as much research as possible/meet the right people to explore with. Communication, honesty and kindness are very important, I definitely have a thing for intimacy and exploring in a healthy, consensual way. And being a successful Dom is about having that foundation of trust and communication, I certainly feel.

I’m quite open in terms of kink, totally keen to explore what both myself and a partner would be interested in (more willing to share interests if a connection sparks). I have a particularly creative imagination so I’m quite often composing ideas and scenarios that I would enjoy and could be fun to explore and polish. Depending on the circumstances, I would want this to be text based to begin with until we both feel comfortable with engaging further.

Physically – I’m 5’10, average body, though have recently very much started working on my diet and exercising regularly, which is showing nice progress (again, compared to ten years ago, I’m a real glow-up now, haha). Medium length brown hair, brown eyes, glasses.

I’m particularly looking for a partner (25-30) who radiates confidence, independence, emotional intelligence and personality; someone who knows what they want and is still able to grow alongside someone. I’m certainly something of a slow-burn romantic type at heart, so developing that trust and bond before diving into the true Dom/Sub aspect would be perfect.

Be sure to tell me about yourself and your ideas and feelings for an ideal relationship.