I am an 18 year old female looking for a dominant in So Cal (potentially Nor Cal too) and someone close to my age NO OLDER THAN 25. IRL ONLY. I’m in Bakersfield California, the closer to me the better. A little about me. I am a submissive (honestly not exactly sure what kind of submissive but I know I am one as I have always been naturally submissive). I definitely can be a bit stubborn and sassy at times. I enjoy pain. I do not drive (it gives me anxiety). So someone who is willing to travel to me would be perfect (I also want to travel the world so someone who wants to do that as well would be amazing). I am looking for someone who wants a d/s dynamic as well as a relationship outside of the dynamic (boyfriend/girlfriend maybe eventually marriage). I am brand new to the world of BDSM so someone who is willing to explore with me would be amazing. But I also know what red flags and stuff to look for and am not afraid to block someone. I want a dominant who is caring but also pretty strict. So I guess a mixture of a soft and hard Dom. I want them to be dominant inside and outside of the bedroom. I want someone who I can introduce to my family and they won’t be ashamed to be seen with me. Someone who will support me in activities (ie graduation). I want to be able to sit down maybe over dinner with someone and go over rules, punishment, rewards, expectations, how our relationship will look like, etc. I want to spend time getting to know each other. Message me to see if we’re compatible!
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