Hello everyone,

I tend to write lengthy posts, but I'll try to keep it short this time. I know it says Minnesota, but I'm limiting my area to the Twin Cities and its suburbs. Also, I am looking for a play partner that may turn romantic. I've been told I should start dating again, and I do, but I would like to be with someone I am sexually compatible with. I am also a slow burn. Before considering dating, I want to be friends with my potential romantic partners. I am technically in the dating scene at the moment, but I also want to try my luck here as well as I have met some incredible people through here.

I am a switch that leans dom. My more tame kinks are rope play on both sides, extensive oral sessions, toy play, safe exhibition dares, and dressing my partners up. And even with all these kinks, I do enjoy a good vanilla session and a chill coffee/movie hangout/date.

Also, non-sexual facts about me are: I am into DnD, horror movies, comedy and drama TV shows. I started running again, I just did a 5K. I plan on getting my body back into marathon shape. I enjoy hiking, camping, walking on trails, and snowboarding, and I hope to start skydiving next year. I also like to play video games, primarily RPGs, but I haven't played them in a while and won't until my current project is finished.

My more extreme kinks tend to be primal play, but I tend to hold back a lot unless I trust them that they can handle it.

I enjoy fisting and teaching my partner how to take large toys. You don't have to be a size queen, but I hope you are at least open to learning to take a fist. I very much enjoy the vocal noises and the body language of someone who enjoys a stretching session and the feeling of penetrative sex after a stretching session. It can take months if you have never done something like this, which is 100% okay. When doing this, knowing the limits and being safe is essential.

Another extreme fetish of mine is dp, whether it is with toys (preferably) or with a 3rd entering our bedroom. While I am a monogamous individual during relationships, I've been becoming more and more open to the idea of spicy monogamy, in the sense that my partner and I play with others together. No cucking, as I do not want to be sidelined; I do want my partner to be the focus of attention. I've been learning more about myself recently, and I enjoy the idea of my partner being wanted and lusted after and the knowledge that my partner comes back to me.

I am also into ANR and breast play. At the very least, I hope you enjoy having your nipples played with. I also like to be desired as well and be told to give you oral or latch onto your nipples, even when you are playing or watching your show.

I am also open to more kinks and would like to learn from you. I am also a switch, so if you like to be dominant, I am open to it.

About you: If you are into even half of what I said, then the only other requirement is that you are 21 for a play partner or /- 5 my age to be a potential romantic partner. I am not looking for ddlg or to be a sugar daddy. I am looking for an equal outside of our kinky relationship. I am also looking for someone who enjoys long walks on the trails or lakes. Someone who likes hiking and is open to ski resort vacations next year would be amazing.

If you read this far, thank you very much. Let me know what interests you or what caught your eye about my post. I would like to meet up in public to see if we get along before doing anything sexual.