My favorite part of a dom/sub relationship is the mental aspect, and I'm looking for a sub that would be interested in building a dynamic that emphasize that. My hope is that you're the type of sub who craves the feeling of submission, not just because it leads to kinky exciting tasks, but because the feeling of being subservient to somebody turns you on more than anything.

Rather than being vague, I'll list some of the kinks I'd like to incorporate, and why I enjoy them in the context of this type of dynamic.

• Orgasm control (e.g. joi, edging, denial, forced) - I see relinquishing control of such an intimate and primal urge as inherently very submissive.
• Rules / Restrictions (e.g. daily rituals, what you can wear or how you can behave while at home) - Regardless of the specifics, when you're following somebody else's rules, it makes it very clear who's in charge and who's not.
• Humiliation (e.g. embarrassing tasks) - I think this is really good for making a sub feel vulnerable, and it's one of my favorites for that reason.
• Degradation (e.g. name calling, objectification) - Not always in the mood for this, but under the right circumstances I think it can emphasize the power dynamic.
• Desperation / Begging (e.g. asking permission to cum, bladder control) - Getting a sub so desperate for release that she'll genuinely beg for it is one of the best power differentials.
• And a variety of other things, like bondage, pet play (for the humiliation aspect), tedious/boring tasks (following these sorts of orders truly shows obedience), light pain (hurting yourself for a dom's enjoyment is again very subservient), and so one.

I'm 38m from the US EST, white / tan complexion, 5 9 165lb, short brown hair, brown eyes. I have a good career, and I'm single as of a couple months ago, and really don't have any baggage. I enjoy being outside, cooking, diy type things, not a big gamer (though I do play casually), traveling,

You're a cis-female, probably age 25-40 (but flexible), open to any race or location (though the closer you are the logistically easier things can be). Hopefully decently intelligent and good at communicating. It's especially fun when you're a competent, respectable person in your everyday life who craves this feeling of being subservient in private.

I'm envisioning this would start fairly casual with the potential to become long-term or irl if we're both wanting that. But I recognize this is reddit, so one step at a time. Hopefully we'll enjoy talking beyond just the kinky stuff.

Anyway, I guess this is long enough. If this sort of dynamic sounds like something that might appeal to you, send me a chat or message with a little bit about yourself and we can take it from there.