Me: I'm 5'4", size 14, 36F, bbw, red hair and blue eyes. I would call myself attractive and am willing to trade pics once I've been talking with someone. I have a good career that I excel in and my own place. I'm single, never married and have no kids.

I'm Looking for a Dom that is 36-55 I have an affinity for big, thick, pink cock. I'm a bit of a size queen. I like men that are naturally dominant, confident but not cocky, have a good sense of humor, caring, dependable, honest and won't ghost on me.

My kinks include, but aren't limited to: bondage, rope, clamps, anal, toys, impact play and pain. I'm very open to trying new things.

I am not interested in a poly relationship or anything ENM. I want a Dom that puts me first, has good communication skills and emotional intelligence. Someone that is as concerned about the non-sexual part of our relationship as they are the sexual part. Again, I'm not looking for non monogamy in any form. If you have someone you consider a gf or wife, or someone that would consider YOU their bf or husband, I am not for you.

I almost hate to admit that I'm a masochist, I don't know why. I love to hate it, I hate I love it.
I want someone that if we were out together, we can steal a glance at each other with that sly little smile from you that lets me know exactly what kind of punishment I'm going to be in for when we get home. I can be somewhat bratty and challenging, it's the redhead in me. I'm head strong and fiercely independent outside of the bedroom. I'm use to taking care of my own stuff around the house and in my life. That being said, once I get into the "bedroom" I don't want that control anymore. I have a high sex drive and have been struggling as of late to find someone who will match me.

Outside of kink my interests include movies, music, cooking, baking, gardening and traveling. I love seeing new places and would love to do some more exploring soon.

I'm looking for something long term, a relationship- something that anyone looking in on would think is completely vanilla, but we will know otherwise. I want to find my safe space, my person, the one that pushes me to better myself. If you send a message to me that is only talking about sex, I won't respond. I find it hard to trust someone as much as something like this requires, that is why I need to start forming a foundation before I can let myself go into the deeper stuff I'd like to explore.

I think I've rambled on enough. Hopefully we can both find what we're looking for.