Hello everyone,

I don’t know how better to say this, other than I can’t sleep. I keep shuffling, turning over thinking I want more. More to go on to, to go on for. I study, I cook and I travel, I live a full and big life. I’m happy as I am, but I find myself stopping and wondering where to go from here. Boys come along, and it’s nice for some time but then you figure out that they have a few years to go, you need someone who can handle your energy, know how to set boundaries, be their own person without wanting to please you to be with you. And, if they know how to be their own person, they also need to know when to agree to disagree. It’s hard, it’s tough, so I figured I’d come back here. I’ve met a lot of interesting people here and I’m hoping to meet a few more.

I’m looking for someone who can handle my energy, who knows how to set boundaries and say no, because I do. I will push and prod and provoke to know more, I’m curious like that. And fun. I want a fight, and I want to be pinned down and taken. I also need to be with someone whom I know I can respect, whom I know will know when to take things seriously and when not to as well as know when I just need to be slapped and told to get down on my knees. I need a dominant.

I’m well in control of my own life and I’m not falling apart. If you’re someone who likes control, I want to give it to you. If you like being sadistic, I crave the pain. If you want to shush me while putting yourself in my the 8th time the same day because I’m just so sore, I’m your girl. If you want someone to laugh with, to provoke you into play, I’ll be the perfect prey. I want CNC, and other darker kinks I’d rather build up to in a conversation. If you’re someone who’s looking for a victim, then you’ll be sorry, I’m not your girl, don’t come looking for a quick cum or a girl you think you can abuse, because I will not give you the time of day - I’m not inexperienced and I’m certainly not afraid. I want good conversation, and I’m open to a lot of things, very open minded and cheeky.

But, please, if you think you can make me fear you, do reach out. Bonuses if you’re funny, I love dark humour and wit. I’m aware this message can seem intimidating, but to the right person, it should be alluring. Oh, and I prefer the mails on Reddit, instead of chat, so you’re more likely to hear back from me there.

Best, E