Hi hi!

I'm not sure what I should mention first, but I'll get the most important things out of the way first, I suppose. I am NOT looking for rules, punishments, commands or being truly controlled. I enjoy quite a few things in the BDSM sphere, but I am not a true submissive and have no interest in obeying your every word. I’m a 27-year-old woman seeking a SOFT dom / pleasure dom to talk to and get to know. I’m feminine, talkative, passionate,  loyal, well-spoken and funny. I have a lot of interests and hobbies (which will be listed below.) Appearances wise, I am fair-skinned, have red hair, and green eyes. I’m 5’4”. I don’t smoke, do drugs, and I rarely drink. I am relatively sexually reserved and do not consider myself to be promiscuous. 

MOST IMPORTANTLY, I’m looking for someone respectful who is NOT interested in degrading his partner, and provides her with affection, affirmation, and aftercare. Ideally, I’d like something that lasts if things go well, and I would like to get to know you both inside and outside of the bedroom.  I am admittedly slightly more vanilla than kinky, but I do have quite a few interests in the BDSM sphere, such as: praise, impact play,  mild pain (I am a slight masochist), clamps, forced orgasms/overstimulation, blindfolds, restraints, and some others. I have a wide array of toys.I will disclose a full list of kinks once I become comfortable with you. I AM NOT interested in being given rules, being truly controlled, or being truly punished. (Funishments, however, are completely fun when in the mood!!) I do run towards the “bratty” side of the spectrum, and find teasing all in good fun. If you do not provide aftercare, please do not message me, as I am not into abusers.  Some HARD limits include, but are not limited to: POLYGAMY OF ANY KIND, punishments, TPE, CNC, age play. Another hard limit, from more of a personality/viewpoint spectrum, is being against a woman's right to choose. This is such an important part of basic women's rights that I am not interested in developing something with someone who doesn't respect this.

I am looking for someone who enjoys talking, especially phone conversations, and is willing to reciprocate the effort I put forth into getting to know someone and developing a relationship. I respond quickly and, unless otherwise occupied, I’d ask the same from you. Ideally, I am looking for something somewhat serious, long term preferred if we click. I DO NOT send nudes under any circumstance, but would be more than happy to send some SFW selfies, most likely early on. Politically, I am more right-leaning than left, but unless you’re extreme on other sides, I can get along well with most people! 

Some of my hobbies/interests include: Taylor Swift, reading, music (especially country and Taylor, but I listen to multiple genres), following cute little animals (especially corgis) on Instagram who don’t know I exist, going on vacations and concerts, talking  (a lot) , sewing, adult coloring, shopping, most artsy things, correcting grammar in my head, all things sparkly, creative writing, and Taylor Swift.

If you've gotten this far and are still interested, send me a message with your ASL, what you're looking for, a description of your appearance and some fun things about you! I’d love to hear from you! I don’t have a specific, set-in-stone person I’m looking for - if we click, we click. I can get along happily with lots of different types of people. I am a grammar Nazi, and speaking properly definitely isn’t a deal-breaker. It is a huge bonus, however, if you are well-versed in English! I  will also say, very clearly, if you’re looking for someone who leaves her dignity at the door, views lowly of herself, kneels before you, and calls you “Master,” I’m not for you.  

I am looking for someone pretty close to my age, preferably between the ages of 25-32. I'd also prefer someone from the US in case we click and also for time zone purposes.