I'm a brat handler/wrangler who firmly believes that the goal of a bratting/brat handling dynamic shouldn't be to tame the brat, but to enjoy the game and "handle" the bratting as it comes.
So bring the sass and attitude! I love the banter, the battle of wits, the pranks, escalation, and love providing "consequences" that will make a brat think twice before trying that again (The first thought is about how it went last time, the second is usually "How can I top that this time?)
I have a strong sadistic streak, but also love domestic discipline, orgasm control and denial, bondage, and others. I do want a lifestyle dynamic more than a "bedroom only" dynamic, but every dynamic and relationship needs to fit the people in it, so I'm open to figuring out something else that works. Limits are ageplay, unhygienic or illegal play, permanent harm, withdrawal of attention/abandonment as punishment, and non-monogamy.
Outside of kink, I'm living in the tri-state area, have a stable job (that I'm moving up in!), live alone with my dog, and a bunch of silly little hobbies. I'm neurodivergent friendly and trauma informed, so please don't let those stop you from reaching out. I've been told I am very cozy to be around, and have "wholesome dad" vibes, so be careful around that thermostat, you brat! >:( Appearance wise, I'm 5'9, have a muscular build, shoulder length hair, and a short beard.
The potential dealbreakers: I'm not into ageplay. I'm demisexual, so the physical part of the relationship will just take some time. I would strongly prefer for you to be local, but would be open to starting things out online as long as there was a definite plan to move in person.
I'm open to both messages and chats, and look forward to hearing from you!
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