hii thank you for clicking on my post, i’m 18, from norcal and im basically looking for what the title says lol. I’m a first time sub, i’ve been interested in the bdsm community for a while now but didn’t know how to put myself out there to possibly find what i was looking for inside the community. But here i am! And i’m hoping here i can find what i’m looking for, and hoping even more that im what someone else is looking for too. For a bit more info about me, as i said i’m from California, specifically from norcal, near the bay area. I’m looking for an in person dynamic, please be either in california or able to visit frequently. I have a very bubbly personality but sometimes it takes a little while for it to start to show, since i am a bit shy and quite introverted, but once i get comfortable im quite talkative, and hyper lol. I’m more of a homebody i like to be at home, although i do love being in nature too. I don’t drink or smoke at all though i don’t mind those that do. Ive always been naturally submissive outside of sexually, being submissive even if it’s not sexually has always just been apart of who i am.
And as for what i’m looking for im looking for someone who’s very passionate about being a dom, who’s passionate about guiding and teaching as well. Someone who’s caring and considerate too. Regarding physically i don’t look for any particular traits although i do absolutely prefer someone taller than me, hence i love size differences, its definitely one of the things that turn me on the most if i’m completely honest. I enjoy princess treatment but i also enjoy being put in my place just as much, if not possibly more.
Now to talk about the fun part that i think most were waiting for, my kinks. My kinks are: praising, degrading, impact play, choking, TPE also known as 24/7, guided masturbation, size differences, orgasm control, overstimulation, and a few more that we can talk about later :). I have very few limits far as I know those being scat, gore, vore, and vomit. I also have a huge thing for guys with attractive voices, I like a deep voice, and when a guy has a really raspy voice, something about a nice voice never fails to draw me in, and if a guy has a voice im attracted to im like putty in his hands. BUT i do want to say i’m not only attracted to those two kind of voices so if you don’t have either one of those still reach out !! Another guilty pleasure of mine is age gaps, something about a guy who’s older than me just does it for me. primarily looking for 21-28 but isn’t required
To talk a little more about what i enjoy, i have far too many hobbies to fit into this but my main ones are cooking, music (i love all kinds of music and i can talk about it all day long), art of all kinds especially pottery, sculpting, and painting. im a big fan of baking as well, i love poetry too, video games, and computer building. I collect vintage technology too (PLEASE ask to see my collection).
And to briefly describe myself physically because i’m sure it’ll be a curiosity, im 4’11, slim physique, dark blonde (dyed) wavy hair, my hair reaches my mid back almost to my butt, light skin complexion, and hazel eyes:). Im also strictly monogamous! I think i’ve talked about myself enough this post is getting long so i’m going to try and wrap it up now (sorryyy), if i’ve piqued your interest please feel more than welcomed to message me, i respond relatively fast so i look forward to hearing from you! Once again i’m sorry this post was so long !
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