Me: 6'1, 25, alt himbo - big thicc guy, def on the "manlier" side (hard to be femme with my sizes but I try when mood is right) with piercings, tatts, body mods and etc. - very Cali flavored, ace and a sort of poly, I guess, enby too for what that counts. Feel free to ask for a pic right away, I just don't want to post it here - if we hit it off we can also move off reddit if that is what you prefer.

With these pleasantries out of the way, if any of this of interest, the title explains what I am here for pretty well - not that I am against younger people, but once I hit 25, I suddenly found out that I became the "hot older dude" in my bdsm group and finding older partners became rarer, which is why I wanted to make a post here, right? Worth a try - met some nice people, so why not.

I have baseline experience, been on the scene for around 10 years at this point, and I can do many things - generally speaking, you can view me as "pleasure switch", meaning that I am here to meet interesting people and if I like you I will try to fit your dynamic. I wouldn't say that I have any specific preferences but I am biased for fellow alt folks, clearly. I am passionate about body art.

I am currently in university and working towards a PhD, so I think part of wanting to meet an older kinkster is a desire to have a friend with whom I could engage on the same level, I guess? Does that make sense? Hopefully - tldr; I want to meet someone cool, someone who can both get down and dirty but also just hang, vibe and have fun, right? Interesting people, cool people, rizz me up and all that, right?

If I did not respond, feel free to bug me, reddit can be odd like that - aces and trans folks are welcome too. If you want to just chat, that is cool too, again, just vibing, it's spooky weekend. Will be at home painting anyway probably - let's say 24/25 ? I guess I did lie a bit tho, I do have also bias for fellow goths and the such - horror enthusiasts and all.

This looks good, I think. Thank you for reading, have a good one, bye