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28 [M4F] #New York City - Looking for a nerdy yapping girlboss
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xtpdvn7 is a male age 28 looking for a female in New York City
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About me: So I'm a bit of a homebody but I'm looking to get out of my comfort zone a bit, I yearn for a bit of adventure as cheesy as it sounds, though I don't mind if you are also a homebody too. I would like to explore different hobbies but want someone to enjoy them with. I have a few nerdy interest (like games) but I wont annoy you about them unless they also happen to be stuff you're into. I can be a bit of a know it all but not the condescending type. I might come off a bit awkwardly shy but I promise there'll be a big difference once I'm comfortable talking to you. I definitely will show that I care even if you're just a friend because I just like to be fair and consistent with every new person I meet. If you ever need advice or to vent I know when to be serious and be a good listener. I'm not a therapist but I'll tell you more than "it really do be that way." I'm open to people who just want to be friends too. I'm a sub leaning switch.

What I can offer: Emotional support and attentiveness towards what you're going through. I'm patient and wont hound you when you're busy. I'm willing to compromise without holding it against you in any way. I wont overwhelm you with my problems as that isn't fair to you at all. Endless comedy and comfort at almost any hour of the day. Am able to communicate whatever is on my mind so you aren't blindsided about how I'm feeling. I don't mind talking about literally anything you feel like discussing, even if I have no expertise in that area I'm fine with learning or giving my thoughts on it. Am also open minded and respectful of your interest/judgement free. I do want to help build the best version of yourself so if you have any goals that I can help you with, feel free to let me know.

What I'm looking for: Someone over 22 and under 32. You would either want to be a friend/super close buddy/girlfriend. I honestly would really just prefer long term but I'm pretty flexible on this since I'm currently single. I want to speak with someone that is mostly friendly that I don't have overthink what I'm saying with. I'm a bit of a nervous mess that happens to be cute but I just want someone to chill with in person if we happen to live super close. I want to meet someone that can enhance my quality of life in the same way I hope to enhance theirs. I'll be honest though, I've written about what my "type" of person is in the past and never seem to get the right vibe, I'm curious if they're out there but if you happen to be friendly, goofy and curious then that's definitely in the right direction. My limits are very well thought out and I'll elaborate on them with you if they clash with anything you happen to like. I want to focus on the emotional connection for a bit but we can also discuss dealbreakers and attraction at the start if you'd prefer to get it out the way. I really want to know what you want out of this so please start your message with at least an idea of that so that I don't end up wasting your time.

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