I want to be obsessed with you. I want to be so charmed by you that I’m waiting for every message you send. I want to hang off of your every word. I want to be slowly bent and molded into a good girl. I want to entertain your days and brighten your mood. I want to make you proud and inspired. I want to make you laugh and smile. I want you to challenge me. I want you to understand me. I want you to talk to me.

I’d love to meet a wise, mature man who knows what he wants and what he likes. A man who appreciates a bit of a challenge and is strategic in his problem solving skills. Someone determined and self-aware. Someone who wants to work and weasel. Someone who becomes more curious at the first sign of aversion. Someone who seeks to change and bend.

It’s important I find this man because I believe he holds something very important to me. I think he can unlock a piece of me that I can’t do by myself. I’ve tried and I’ve not been successful. But I’ve seen glimpses of it occasionally when just the right sort of masculine energy becomes aligned with mine.

There’s a lot I want to know and discover. And I don’t have the details of that all straightened out, so please don’t ask. Step 1 is finding the right connection with the right person.

The right man can inspire so much and set a tone that is intoxicating. A man who intuitively knows how to push and pull in a conversation to get the outcome he desires. A man who appreciates a bit of a challenge and won’t settle until he’s molded his perfect vision right in front of him.

I’m happiest when interacting with those who make my mind spin. The right person can send me to a place in my mind that I never want to leave. I’ve yet to find that right person to fully submit to but I’ve been close. I know you’re out there. And I’m determined to find you.

Admittedly, I’ve reached a point in my kink journey where I’ve become a bit jaded and cynical. I’m working hard to not be but I find myself sinking there with each message in my inbox that doesn’t align with what I’m looking for. I tend to be fairly guarded, introverted, and keep to myself. At this point, I’m not so keen to share too many details with the wrong person. I’m also very laid back, chill, and appreciate that in others. I like a conversation to have a good feel and flow. I feed off energy. The approach you have is important as it is very telling of how you interact and the longevity of a conversation. If you’re giving nothing, not asking questions, not talking about yourself, moving at a speed that’s too quick; you’ll receive nothing from me. I don’t need an elaborate song and dance for you to stand out. What stands out most to me is when someone has a genuine, simple approach to conversation. Just be you. Show me it’s important to you to establish a friendly and fun line of communication first. Show me I can open up to you. If you invest a little bit, I’ll invest a whole lot more.

Kinks: sapiosexuality, orgasm control and denial, TPE, free use, tasks, light mostly verbal degradation/humiliation, psychological bdsm, teasing, misogyny, mind games, power dynamics, ddlg, age gaps, emotional masochism, grooming, gender roles

Limits: blood, scat, animals, heavy abuse