Hey there! You can already guess from the title but let me say it again. I’m writing this post in order to find someone to connect with, first as a person and then as a sub. I’m not looking for a short term or casual thing so if that’s your case, you can already refrain from reading more. Now that only serious ones remain, I invite you to read my ad through the end :)

About me:

To begin, there’s already a post about me in my profile, I invite you to take a look at it. That said, I still have to introduce myself; I’m a 22yo dominant black man. In my everyday life, I’m a student currently trying my best to get this engineer degree. I’m ambitious and career driven in a way though of course, that’s not all there is to me. I’m pretty sociable as I think it’s important to connect with people in life. I also keep myself fit by going to the gym and try to eat healthy; not the easiest task I know, but I try lol. I have many hobbies like gaming, watching series, playing sports and I always like to learn/do new things.

Now as a dom: I find my balance between softness and harshness. I’m not one type of dom in particular but many at the same time. There’s days where I just feel like being gentle, guiding my sub through simple orders, praising her for her willingness to please me etc… And instead, there’s days where I want to hold what’s mine firmly and using it roughly as a toy to satisfy my needs. You should have the gist of it I think.

Do you think it’s incompatible? Well, not really. I think that if you do it one way all the time, it quickly get boring. For example, imagine being degraded and called names 24/7… you’ll obviously get bored of it and that’s the same for me. And instead, if you’re always treated gently 24/7…well, it wouldn’t do it for me because I always want you to have this sense of belonging and being owned. If you don’t really feel owned and powerless before me, it would get boring too at some point. So I like to keep a balance between strict and sadistic, and gentle and caring. That’s my way of domming ;)

Kink wise, I’m into a myriad of things, ranging from soft to more hard ones. To name few: Orgasm control, pet play, praise, humiliation, impact play, bondage, edging, forced orgasm, slave training, TPE etc… I’m pretty much open to almost anything as long as it’s not within limits( you will know about my limits by reading the other post on my profile). I’ll also add that it’s obviously consensual and fun above all, so I shall respect the limits of any potential partner.

My requirements:

Read on this part carefully. I’m pretty much picky when it comes to who I choose to dom and I’m not desperate egnouh to just take on anyone lol. So you should be: - able to put on work to make this dynamic work ( I’ll obviously do my part too); - Someone who can hold a normal conversation; - submissive to your core and wanting for someone to take charge. Your pleasure should be in the act of serving; - taking submission seriously and being picky on who you choose to submit to( yeah, that’s a green flag for me lol);

I’m not interested if you’re: - the kind to call anyone Daddy/Sir and can easily give anyone over the net your submission; - not of legal age for obvious reasons; - can’t hold a conversation and are just horny, wanting to be used fast; - not in search of something long term; - the kind who can’t even read a simple post through the end( put on a black heart emoji in your answer if you read it);

It was long but I said all now I think. As long as you meet those requirements and feel interested, I invite you to dm me. Put on a bit effort in your message, moreover so if you have an empty profile. I’ll read through all messages and answer those who are well written. Thank you for reading through this; let’s keep things fun and kinky :)