I typically prefer not to talk too much about what I’m into because it’s important for me that the dynamic built is based on mutual interests and I’m extremely open to variety. However, I want to try and paint a picture of the ideal scenario.

First, I’m a very down to earth person. I’m understanding and affectionate. Any dynamic I create, even strict ones, will take into account that no one is perfect and everyone needs to benefit from the life they live. I’m not into one sided dynamics.

Ideally I’m looking for someone to live with me full time. Though I’m open to splitting time I need long periods with my partner at the very least.

I see myself as a shepherd/leader/parental figure. So I typically see dynamics as very natural extensions of who I am. I see my relationships as familial. Unconditional love is important to me.

I’m into exotic/dark/hard kinks and dynamics to balance out my extreme affection. CNC, TPE, chastity (as well as other orgasm play), S&M, medfet, breath play and more. I have lots of experience with bondage (rope and device) as well as many other kinks.

I tend to prefer service submissives, but I’m not looking to have someone to do everything for me. I love to cook and I love to take care of my partners. A good distribution of labor is important.

Someone with at least a bit of experience is preferred. Im happy to show my partner things they’ve never tried, but I need you to be able to communicate your boundaries clearly and that takes some experience.

I am polyamorous. I’m open to people who are partnered or who want to have other partners. Experience or openness to polyamory is heavily preferred.

I’m taking things slow these days. Not looking to rush anyone. Building a firm foundation first. I’m AMAB, masc presenting non-binary.

My Fetlife is: Philos314