Good afternoon! I've taken a writing-based approach in past ads, but I'm going to try bullet points for this one!

I am (unkinked):

• A 28 year old guy
• From Northern New Mexico (with some flexibility on distance as long as we have a plan to see each other frequently and close the distance reasonably soon)
• Looking for a long-term, serious, in-person (eventually, as applicable) relationship
• Childfree
• Experienced if slightly rusty; deeply sadistic and profoundly caring
• In touch with my emotions, kind, patient, and curious
• The person friends turn to for a calming presence and steady hand
• Hold progressive principles and do everything I can to give voice to the underrepresented
• 6'1", 240lb, with broad shoulders, a beard (when I don't have to shave for work), and dark (mixed white/middle eastern) features
• A punk at heart, but am outwardly a chickenshit conformist these days
• Enjoy cycling, powerlifting, yoga, hiking, and snowboarding
• A lover of nonfiction books and sophomoric comedy (e.g. IASIP, Curb Your Enthusiasm, Bob's Burgers, Workaholics, etc.)

I do my best not to take myself, or life, too seriously. Life is about making memories with people you care about, in my opinion. I would like to find a partner who wants to have lots of fun, laugh with and at each other, and enjoy life.

I am (kinked)

• Open minded, somewhat hedonistic, and simply enjoy the connection and trust involved in passionate, rough, kinky activities of all persuasions
• Enjoy control in all its forms, and particularly enjoy enforcing the rules of our negotiated dynamic
• Some favorites (but not requirements): Impact play, breath play, CNC/freeuse, orgasm control, service (sexual and domestic), toys, creampies/breeding, anal/throat training, sloppy throatfucking, manhandling, and cuddles (before and after we clean up the mess I make of you)

You are (ideally, among other things):

• An unabashed goofball
• Childfree
• Working towards early retirement
• 23-35 years old
• Live an active lifestyle and enjoy the outdoors

I'm sure I've left many details out, but it's more fun to learn those as we go, anyway. Hopefully I've caught your eye - I'd love to get to know you.