if i could use only three words to describe my approach to kink, it would be: curious, apprehensive, and eager. my experience is somewhat limited, and while kink seems incredibly fun, it also feels quite scary. that said, i can be avoidant and often get scared when it comes to vulnerability. i’m hoping to connect with someone patient who’s willing to take the time to get to know me— i promise i’m really fun and interesting (i think)!

the regular side of me: i’m nerdy and enthusiastic about all things history. i love literature and would happily read for a living if i could. i’m also working on becoming a movie buff. i have tons of hobbies that i’d love to share, but this post might get too long!

as for the not-so-regular side of me: i’m limited in experience and looking to explore slowly with someone who is ideally patient, genuine, and not going to bombard with off the bat with a million requests to get naked and show my parts, bent over. while exhibitionism is fun, i’m looking for a rather genuine connection.

what i’d love to get out of this connection: honestly, i’m still figuring it all out. as someone new to kink, i feel a bit apprehensive but also excited to explore. i’m looking to understand myself sexually, whether through your stories or more hands-on experiences like orgasm control.

i would absolutely love a space where i can ask questions, explore without pressure, and simply see where things lead. if you’re seeking something super serious and long-term right now with someone who’s super experienced, i might not be the right fit. i’m just as uncertain about what i want for myself, and i’m hoping to learn as i go! :)

so, if you’re (a) not married/in a relationship, (b) a fan of really detailed messages with effort, and (c) someone who’s also super cool and interested in chatting about life, kink, and everything in-between, please do send me a private message.

p.s: chats tend to get ignored cuz i get overwhelmed easily.