let me preface by saying that i’m VERY inexperienced. i understand some people aren’t into that so there’s your heads up.

another warning: i turn heads. i’m alternative and have a service dog. i can stick up for myself but just be aware that i get a lot of stares and the occasional confrontation.

anyways, hello! i’m a college student going into marine biology. i’m into things like shows, movies, anime, books, gaming (duh, most redditors are), and baking. i’d say cooking but honestly not my specialty (i somehow managed to burn water once). as mentioned earlier, i’m more alternative/goth and i have a few pets and a LOT of plants. my age range is 21-30. i have a preference for people taller than me (i’m 5’9) and in good shape as i’m a fairly active person (scuba diving, hikes, and the occasional gym when i feel like it). common beliefs are VERY important to me. common style isn’t necessary but tattoos and piercings definitely don’t hurt to have. (i mean, i guess they technically do). also, while i am nonbinary, i have female anatomy and prefer feminine compliments and endearments.

i’m looking for something long term with the intentions of meet ups and hopefully something more permanent down the line. like a normal couple relationship, only extra spicy. if you’re looking for something short, online, and purely (or even slightly) just for fun then i’m not the one.

aaaaand speaking of extra spicy…

i know for certain that i like choking, TPE, praise, being marked up (bruises, scratches, hickeys, etc), hair pulling, being restrained, cnc, manhandling/being overpowered, some aspects of pet play, and weapons. i’m not against trying things like blood and temperature play. if there’s something i didn’t list, chances are i’m more than likely willing to try at the very least.

my hard no’s are scat/piss, most aspects of ddlg, and degradation because i’m stupidly sensitive. i’m not really into sending nudes or sexting/phone sex.

outside the bedroom, i enjoy things like tasks, schedules, rules, and still some power exchange. the vanilla side of a relationship is incredibly important to me as well. (things like cute dates, cuddling, hand holding, just hanging out together, etc)

that’s it! i apologize for this being so long. PLEASEEE don’t open up with something super sexual. i want to get to know you first <3