What I’m looking for is simple: someone I connect with. Someone charming, intelligent, witty, caring. Someone who, like me, has their shit together so they can focus on the finer things in life. I love a man with a passion, and someone who is generally ‘switched on’. Must be dominant, obviously (who’s going to slap me otherwise?!). I’d ideally build up a fwb type of thing, but with an explicit emphasis on the friends part. I do want you to take me on a cute date, and have interesting conversations, but I don’t want to celebrate Christmas at your parents’. I'm only looking to connect with locals (ideally expats), similar-ish in age.

Right. The good stuff then. Some men think I can’t possibly be submissive. They would be wrong, and clearly have never been in a bedroom with me. (My go to joke, don’t judge me: I don’t have a dominant bone in my body. Unless you put one there). I am quite bratty, and I wouldn’t submit to just anyone.

In terms of kinks, I get bored quickly, so variety is key and what I’m into depends on many, many things, including what you’re into! I tend to keep an open mind and the excitement of doing something for the first time is usually enough to get me to try something. (Although there’s definitely the very usual and obvious hard limits of stuff I don’t want to do, you know the list). Things do center around pain, being told what to do and to an extent humiliation. I guess if I had to summarise, I’m a masochist who loves to be bossed around, and an after-care princess with a praise kink (validation, yes please, hair stroking, even better)

Enough about you, more about me! As the title says, I’m a 33F, living in Amsterdam. I’m tall, curvy, there’s pictures on my profile. I love to travel, eat, drink, cook and socialise. I’m very basic that way. I’m fun to talk to you, you’ll like it, you’ll have a good time. Give it a shot ;)

(I have taken the time and effort to describe what it is I'm looking for. If you don't fit the bill, don't message me. Use your energy to keep looking. But what If I fit what you're looking for, you ask? Great, love that for you. Write your own ad, please don't waste my time)