Hello,

We are a dom/sub involved in long term BDSM training. We met a little over 4 years ago online and have since been involved in play sessions and training sessions. We are currently exploring the idea of having a third play partner.

A few bits about us :

I am the male dom posting this and I have been involved in BDSM related activities for many years now. She is the submissive. Our main focus has been domination and power exchange and although we started out with very soft domination, this has now progressed to more advanced levels and she has trained to be exploring aspects of power exchange and relinquishing of control. We enjoy the mental aspect of domination and humiliation. As a dom I thrive in knowing that I have the power and control over her, whilst as a sub she thrives knowing the fact that her dom can control her as per his wishes. Over the years, we have explored position training, behavioural training, verbal training and many more. I wouldn't want to go into all our kinks as its quite a long one and I'd like to save this for our conversation, but we highly enjoy spanking, humiliation, discreet public humiliation, punishment and anal play. We respect each other's limits and classify our limits into soft and hard ones so we can push and prod the soft ones but stay clear of hard ones. Its now more of a lifestyle aspect for us now rather than one focussed play session.

What we are looking for:

We are looking for a female play partner who is submissive. If you are willing to switch and dominate the female partner, that's quite welcome as well but the male partner will always be the master in this dynamic. We'd also like you to be above the age of 25 ideally. As we both have a busy life outside of the dynamic, we are looking for someone who does not expect constant engagement. We typically plan around schedules to make time for this and as this is now more of a lifestyle for us, it kind of flows through our daily routines. It is not necessary for you to share the same kinks as us, but as a minimum we'd like to play with some one who enjoys humiliation and domination and is excited at the thought of giving up control. We're also not too focussed about any physical characteristics. We're also okay with any levels of experience as we are quite happy to train newbies, so if you have been just fantasising about this and have apprehensions, rest assured, this is a very safe and respectful dynamic. We also value our privacy so we can also assure the same with you.

If this all sounds exciting, we would request you to reach out to us so we can discuss more. Ideally we would like to have a good conversation flowing before we sort of engage in any serious play as we are looking for this dynamic to be more long term than short term and although we have struggled to find the right person, we do not want to compromise on playing with someone who doesn't vibe with us, as this isn't enjoyable for anyone involved. We are excited to hear from you as this is something we have been discussing about for quite a while now and are keen to see things in action :)